Ruth A. Kok (Haan), age 84, of Jenison, passed away unexpectedly and was called to her heavenly home on Wednesday, September 23, 2020. If you knew her, you know that she was a "character" in the truest sense of the word. Full of life. A tough lady who traveled a road that few could handle. A "Seymour girl" from Alger Heights who married a soldier and traveled the world. A mother of six, who experienced so many laughs and tears. She bore the pain of losing her husband, son, daughter, and grandson but still maintained strength and joy. She loved her kids and grandkids, so proud of everything they did. She liked to laugh and make fun of herself. A diabetic with an insatiable sweet tooth who loved to bake. A great cook who even though she lived alone, still made enough to feed eight. She loved to see old friends and talk. To coin an old expression, 'they broke the mold after making her'.  She was preceded in death by her husband of 48 years, Sherwood Kok, Sr.; her son, Gary Kok, her daughter, Kathy Kok; her grandson, Joshua Kok. She will be lovingly remembered by Robert and Cynthia Kok, Gary’s wife, Laura Kok, Bill and Sandy Kok, Woody and Wendy Kok, David and Jami Kok; her grandchildren, Rob and Leah Kok, Jennifer Gryczka, James and Sarah Kok, Charlotte and Jake Lenartz, Kristina Kok, Jason and Sarah Bigelow, Nikki and Brad Walworth, Olivia, Ella, Addison, and Hudson Kok, Jackson, and Gibson Kok; several  great-grandchildren; her sisters, Joyce Van Vels, and Carol Velthouse; many nieces, nephews, and cousins. A graveside service will be announced at a later date. Burial will be held at Pilgrim Home Cemetery.

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October 01, 2020 7:30am
So sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. I had also met Ruth at the Visser YMCA. She always had a smile and will be missed! Prayers for all!

- Sherry L Fik(aqua instructor YMCA)

September 30, 2020 10:43am
Bob and Cindy.....So sorry to learn of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Hope you and your kids are still doing well in Fla...

- Paul and Karen Henneberry

September 28, 2020 4:10am
I was shocked to see notice of Ruth's  passing in todays Press.  Memories came flooding back!  Having babies was what we did best back then--I had Greg and she had Bob, then I had Cindy and  she had Gary, then I had Barb and she had............on and on and on and back and forth went the maternity clothes!                                                     We must have consumed gallons of coffee in those days while our rugrats played and laughed and fought and fought and laughed and?                                If we are not intruding, Cindy and I would  like to attend the graveside service .   My home phone is 616 281  3714 .  Can you let us know when it will be ?  We would like to see you all again and extend our sympathy in  person  (including Carol).                                                                                                                                   With love, Bernie (Lanning) Hedrick         

- Bernie (lanning) Hedrick

September 27, 2020 12:15pm
My condolences to Ruth's family. I met Ruth at the YMCA. She was always high spirited and full of stories and laughter. She will be greatly missed.

- Robin Bundick

September 25, 2020 10:38am
I’m so glad that I was able to see and talk with Ruth at Charlotte’s wedding. She always struck me as military on the outside and marshmallow on the inside. I always laughed when we were in the same room. God bless all of the Koks; May she Rest In Peace.

- Debi Smith-Taylor (Laura’s sister)

September 25, 2020 4:26am
So sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing- I was one of her Innwood neighbors, living across the street from woody and Ruth until she moved away. She was a sweet lady- full of life and fun! I always enjoyed chatting with her. She will be missed!

- Diane Ullery ( formerly Scott)




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