Pamela Joy Hatkowski

September 11, 1957 ~
April 24, 2023

Pamela Joy Hatkowski (Bouwens), age 65, of Chippewa Lake, formerly of Wyoming, unexpectedly passed away on Monday, April 24, 2023, surrounded by her loving family. She will be lovingly remembered by her husband of 48 years, Rick; children, Jason and Melissa Hatkowski, Mike and Renee Hatkowski, Cari Hatkowski and Brian Krask; her 9 grandchildren, Morgan, Gabe, Lexi, Carson, Gehrig, Kamrynn, William, Breslin, and Ben; siblings, Randy and Pearl Bouwens, Gary and Ellen Bouwens, Bob and Sheri Bouwens, Nancy and Jerry Edgerle, Pat Danenberg; several nieces, nephews, many extended family; and her sweet kitty, Gracey. She was preceded in death by her parents, Rynard and Bernadine Bouwens. Pam was the start of a love life of fifty years and a model of what a Christian marriage looks like. She was an avid gardener, baker, sewer, quilter and loved making special gifts for her grandchildren. Pam thoroughly enjoyed decorating and hosting her family for the holidays. Pam loved her Chippewa Lake life floating in the water and jumping off the pontoon boat. A funeral service will be held at 11 am on Monday, May 1, 2023 at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 4646 Kalamazoo Ave., SE, Kentwood. Relatives and friends may greet the family Monday from 9:30 - 11 am at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, those who wish may make memorial contributions to a charity of one’s choosing.

Visitation
Monday, May 1
9:30am - 11:00am

MKD - Kentwood
4646 Kalamazoo Ave. SE
Kentwood, MI 49508
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Phone: (616) 455-1535

Funeral
Monday, May 1
11:00am

MKD - Kentwood
4646 Kalamazoo Ave. SE
Kentwood, MI 49508
Get Directions

Phone: (616) 455-1535

Leave Your Tribute Message

October 19, 2023 11:59pm
It was very difficult to hear of Pam's passing at the Lee high school 100th anniversary. She was part of our last school reunion before covid and admired my boots. I'd like to have known her better. Her family has my sympathy.

- Susan Matteson

May 01, 2023 12:02pm
Cari & Family, We are so sorry for the loss of your mom. We are praying that God will hold you close and comfort you and your family. We didn't find out in time to be at the funeral home. She is with Jesus and you will be together again. Love, Jack, Janet, Sheri and Taylor Alman

- Sheri Alman

May 01, 2023 10:59am
Our thoughts and prayers our with you and family Rick. Pam's beautiful photo and smile brought back fond memories of her. Pam was a Classmate, wonderful backyard neighbor, and Rebel. She will be missed.

- Jeff Brower

April 27, 2023 7:24am
Rick and family so sorry to hear of your loss what a great family life and legacy Pam and you have left to be admired by all

- Ralph and Sheryl haynes

April 26, 2023 7:57pm
Pam, I am missing you so much. You left us so quickly and unexpectedly. You were a great sister and even though we fought as sisters do, there is not anyone I would replace you with. Shine your light on us and I will see you in Heaven on day❤️

- Pat Danenberg

April 26, 2023 6:07pm
We're so glad you're in heaven and no longer in pain. But oh, the pain for everyone here that is missing you. We were blessed to call you our friend and will miss you. Until we see you on the other side...

- EVELYN J PAAUWE

April 26, 2023 4:58pm
My thoughts and prayers go out to Rick and the family during this time. Pam will be missed but not forgotten. Wishing you strength and comfort during this time. Blessings, Annette Coles

- Annette  Coles

April 26, 2023 3:04pm
i knew you back then...i knew you to the day.. i,ll know you,ll live forever.. save me a place , we,ll see eachother again !! we will then smile and laugh together !

- Joe de groot

April 26, 2023 1:47pm
Dear sweet mother of mine - you were taken from us so suddenly and much too soon! The world isn't the same without you in it. I miss you every second and cannot express enough in words how amazing you were in every single way. I love you so much, Mom.

- Cari Hatkowski




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