Matthew James Kaper, age 41, of Hudsonville, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, May 4, 2015 and went to be with the Lord. Matthew was a graduate of Jenison High School and Grand Valley State University. He was currently employed at Walker Roadhouse and had worked there since its opening and was known as “Copper”. Many people from the restaurant called him “friend”. Matthew enjoyed photography, motorcycles and art. Surviving are his parents, Ken and Sue Kaper; brother, Kris and Jan Kaper; nephew, Luke; many aunts, uncles, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his niece, Sarah Danielle Kaper. Funeral services will be held on Saturday 11 am at Rosewood Reformed Church, 2795 Rosewood, Jenison, with Rev. Richard VanderKlok and Rev. Howard Moths officiating. Interment Blendon Township Cemetery. Relatives and friends may meet the family Friday from 1-3 and 5-8pm at Matthysse-Kuiper-DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville) 4145 Chicago Dr. SW. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation.

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October 15, 2020 10:31pm
Hi Uncle Matt, It’s me, Kate. It’s been a really long time since we’ve seen each other, but I know you’re still watching over me. I’m 18 now and I’m sitting in my college dorm, and I feel your presence with me. I haven’t felt this overwhelmed by missing you in months. I just want you to know that I’m doing everything I can down here on earth to make you proud up above me. I wish you could have seen me graduate high school, I know you would’ve been so proud of me. I know I’m being selfish but I wish I could hug you just one last time. It’s been over 5 years and it still hurts. I love you and I hope you are at peace. Thank you for watching over me and my mom. We love you so much Uncle Matt.

- Kate Wolshon

August 04, 2015 3:56pm
I miss you so crazy much, Matt... Like oober bunches! I dream of you often... Of our Ducati dates & you petting my head as you say with that sly smile, "you're so pretty"... It took me a few times until I realized you weren't calling me pretty at all... Lmbo. I love how you're all around everywhere I go... Stay close, my love.... Xoxo, Your ditzy fake partial blonde!

- Elizabeth Hilson

May 14, 2015 8:26am
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Kelly Friends of Bill W.

- Kelly

May 13, 2015 5:36pm
Though it's been a long time---we still share loving our children and I am heart broken for you at the loss of your precious son. From the photo, he is the best of both of you. Life will never be the same---I will continue to pray for a gentle peace to wash over you--take good care.

- Carle and Jim DeWitt

May 13, 2015 2:43pm
Poem for Matt from Elizabeth My light in dark times; you were the Anchor when my storms grew Turbulent. Slowly Taking residence within my Heart, your spirit Etched it's way throughout my veins. Waking to a heart full of Joy because of your mere presence, I was in Awe of the sensational kindness flowing within your soul. My days grew brighter because of you. Evolution of love was not lost, for when Seeking and finding the beauty of love, we were also Kissed by the Spirit of Authentic, unbroken friendship. Passing the days with few and many memories, I am lifted by your Exuberant smile! You were my friend and so much more, never fully letting go. Loved by countless... I miss you, already and right now. Rest, my friend, and bask in the perfect glory of our Maker. Xoxo... Love you forever, E P. S. THANK YOU for EVERYTHING!! & I still gotz a bag of mini Snickers.. Can I have them NOW?? 😊

- Elizabeth Hilson

May 08, 2015 10:55am
Ken, Sue and Family – Words cannot express how truly sorry I am to hear about Matt’s death. I pray that God wraps you in His arms and brings you peace and comfort as you travel this rough road. I lost a very close friend not too long ago and reading this letter over and over brought me comfort for some reason….. To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say. But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there’s no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through. God picked me up and hugged me and He said, I welcome you. It’s good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on….. When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when it’s time for you to go...from that body to be free. Remember you're not going...you're coming here to me.

- Tami Nykamp

May 08, 2015 6:40am
Peace and comfort to your family at this time. What a privilege it was to know you and call you my "friend". Your creative mind, passion for life, and sincere warmth were contagious. You enriched our lives in so many ways. You will be dearly missed Matthew James. All our love, Fred, Becky (Reba), and Meghan Klein

- Fred Klein

May 07, 2015 5:05pm
Hey thanks for helpin with the lawn furniture tonight. Sure an gonna miss ya

- your brother

May 07, 2015 8:01am
My Handsome, Life with you was just perfect! Until we meet again, you will always be in my heart, love you. May the Lord give strength to your family, nothing will ever be the same without you.

- Anastasia Miliadi

May 07, 2015 7:26am
My heart is breaking for all of you. I know how hard it is to say goodbye to a son and brother. Take solace that Matt is now with his Lord and favorite niece.

- Elizabeth VerHoeven

May 07, 2015 6:15am
Deep sadness over the loss of Matt. My young friend, riding partner and Ducati brother. A truly honorable and gentle soul. Much sympathy to the family.

- Bob Davidson

May 07, 2015 3:44am
Ken and Sue, Wow what a loss for you, your family and friends. Please accept God's love and compassion to you at this time.

- John Emrich

May 07, 2015 2:02am
So sorry for the loss of your son, he truly was a wonderful young man and will be missed. We had the pleasure of knowing him from the Walker Road House, he always had a smile and was friendly to everyone.

- Jim & Chris Pelton

May 06, 2015 10:16pm
Matty, your smile was contagious, your presence lite a room, and you had the biggest heart. You will be missed dearly. Thoughts and Prayers go out to the family and I am deeply sorry for your loss.

- Katrina Hulett

May 06, 2015 6:27pm
So very sorry to hear about Matt's passing. He was a good friend of our sons Fred Klein Jr. and Andy Klein. He was often at our home with our boys and always had a big smile and great sense of humor. He will be missed. Gay and I are very sorry for your loss and will be praying for your family.

- Fred & Gay Klein

May 06, 2015 4:12pm
Matt you were a true joy. You loved life and always faced everything with a smile. The people who were blessed to have known you will never forget you. Heaven truly gained a special soul. May God be with your family in this difficult time. I hope we meet again one day.

- Nicole

May 06, 2015 2:19pm
Sending prayers! You are missed!

- Sarah Jo

May 06, 2015 2:03pm
Sending my thoughts and prayers to your family Matt! You will be so missed, as Skippy said the world is definitely less awesome with out you.

- Robin (O'Bryant) Koziol

May 06, 2015 12:34pm
Dear Ken, Sue and family, Please know that you are in our prayers. We have fond memories of Matt at both Logan's and Walker Roundhouse. He always had a smile and something to say.

- Ken and Lin Blauwkamp

May 06, 2015 11:30am
My prayers go out to you and your family. You were an amazing guy. I'm blessed and honored to have known you. God Bless

- Ken Derylo

May 06, 2015 11:28am
All my prayers and thoughts go out to you Ken, Sue and Kris. I am so sorry you have to go through this. I know your hearts are breaking, and I wish I had the words to take your pain away. You now have one son in heaven along with Sarah. You will be in my prayers. I love you. Patti

- Patti Nykamp

May 06, 2015 11:28am
Big Gulp Eh?

- Scott Ingersoll

May 06, 2015 10:32am
Prayers to your family and friends. You had an amazing smile and personality. RIP.

- Stephanie Baker Morningstar




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