PHIPPS- On July 23, 2018, John Everett Phipps, attended by his wife and children, died of acute gastritis after two and a half weeks in the hospital. He was seventy-three years old. A memorial service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday August 11, 2018, at Plainfield Christian Church, 7255 Pine Island Drive NE, Comstock Park, Michigan 49321. The family does not wish to receive flowers, and suggests that those who would like to make a memorial gift donate to the Plainfield Christian Church to benefit the music ministry, to which John dedicated eighteen years of service as worship leader and choir director, or to the American Kidney Foundation, or to the Lemmen-Holton Cancer Pavilion. John Everett Phipps was born on October 16, 1944, in Kendallville, Indiana. His father, Donald Phipps, was a Church of Christ minister who served a series of congregations around the northern part of the country. As a result, and suiting his sense of adventure, John grew up in many places, including Algonac, Michigan; Buffalo, New York; Dayton, Ohio; Green Bay, Wisconsin; Long Island, New York; and Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan. During his high school years, he attended Coldwater High School in Coldwater, Michigan, where his interest in journalism and photography began. He graduated in 1962. John met his wife, Melanie Lee From, at Coldwater High School, quietly admiring her from his assigned spot next to her in the Balladiers choral ensemble. One day, the ensemble, discussing the recent divorce of Hollywood couple Debbie Reynolds and Eddie Fisher, teasingly suggested that the director get one too, since it seemed to have become the fashionable thing to do. John turned to Melanie and said, "Wanna get a divorce?" and Melanie responded, "Sure, why not?" and the ice was broken. John and Melanie married on August 4, 1963, in the First Baptist Church in Coldwater. John's father officiated. John began his journalistic career after high school when he landed a job at the Coldwater Daily Reporter. When asked during his interview whether he could type, he said yes, and then spent the weekend learning how. His first duties included writing news stories and taking photos of the scenes of automobile crashes and of newborn babies in the Coldwater hospital, including his first child. He later worked as a sportswriter for the Midland Daily News, leaving that paper when his surviving an automobile crash convinced him that God wanted him in the ministry. He served as the minister of the St. Johns Church of Christ for two years, after which he returned to journalism, working for a quick succession of small weeklies around Michigan before landing a job as a humor columnist and features writer for the Saginaw News. After a handful of years there, during which he also enjoyed reviewing symphony orchestra concerts and won awards for his column writing, he transferred to the Grand Rapids Press, where he worked the rest of his career as a copyeditor of the Flair section. John pursued a wide variety of interests and activities over the years, including photography, camping, speedskating, racquetball, acting, church-league softball, cycling, scriptwriting for training videos, graphic art, songwriting, freelance book editing, and kayaking. He worked briefly as a radio deejay for WWRM "Warm Friendly 107" in Gaylord, using the handle John Alexander, and he was involved in community events in Saginaw, including stints emceeing the annual Chesaning Showboat, and the Miss Saginaw County pageant, and playing the role of Teddy in the play Arsenic and Old Lace with Saginaw's Pit and Balcony Theater. He had an entrepreneurial spirit and was always brainstorming ideas for freelance income, though he never did get around to producing his calendar for procrastinators. John had a keen sense of humor and a ready laugh and enjoyed wordplay. He loved "the big water," as he called the Great Lakes, and he loved northern Michigan and the Upper Penninsula. He was convinced that the family car always ran happily and more smoothly when it was pointed north. On autumn outings, while everyone in the family bundled up in jackets and hoodies and jeans, John was most comfortable in a T-shirt and shorts. Of all John's interests, his most abiding were photography, cycling, and music. He photographically recorded every family gathering, documented his grandkids' sports and music performances, loved photographing natural scenery, especially of the Great Lakes, and after retirement began a line of greeting cards using his photos and text, which he sold locally. John was a lifelong cyclist, beginning with his high school bike rides from Coldwater to the From family farm to visit Melanie. In his middle years, he enjoyed riding from Grand Rapids to the lakeshore, where Melanie would pick him up for the return trip. Though he was less able to ride in his late sixties and early seventies, he continued to get out on his bike when he could. John's love of music began as a boy singing in church, and developed in high school as a member of the choir and as a cast member in summer stock musicals. As a young man, he taught himself to play guitar. Throughout his adult years, he served the church through music in various roles, including as a song leader, a soloist, and a choir director. For a time in the late seventies and early eighties, he was well-known in parts of the statewide network of Churches of Christ/Christian Churches for his special brand of songwriting, which combined humor and a folksy/jazzy/country guitar style to make a serious point. Among his songs were "The Aardvark Song," "Nothin' Rhymes with Orange," "Spoons," and "The Geriatric Stomp." He loved to include audiences in his performances, and he wrote some of his songs with audience participation in mind. In addition to his music ministry, he served the church by teaching Sunday school classes while his children were of school age. John's greatest interest, though, was other people. He loved to talk and was always curious about other people's interests, regardless of how far afield they were from his own. While conversing with him, it wasn't unusual to feel a little as though you were the subject of a feature story he was writing, such was his engagement with others. His children remember him as always being the last to leave any gathering because he was still talking. Often conversations with John didn't really get started until you were on your way out the door. In retirement, John looked for additional ways to serve people, volunteering to deliver food for Meals on Wheels, occasionally performing for seniors groups, and reading books for the blind, even while undergoing his own chemotherapy treatments. Ever positive, John was a caretaker and a provider and an encourager. He gave steadfast and loving support to his wife, he was proud of his children and their families and their accomplishments, and he loved to spend time with his grandchildren. Even in his last days in the hospital, he was concerned more about others than himself and was continually introducing the nurses to his family and telling them all about them. He remained in good spirits and retained his characteristic optimism and sense of humor until the end. Though he regretted leaving Melanie, he was prepared to enter eternity. He was a kind and upbeat person who was well-liked by everyone who knew him. John was preceded in death by his parents, Donald and Bonnie Phipps, by his father- and mother-in-law, Wesley and Alvaretta From, and by Roger King and Len Harrington, husbands of sisters-in-law. He is survived by his wife of nearly fifty-five years, Melanie, brother David (Amy) Phipps, sister-in-law Karlene King, sister-in-law Judy Harrington, brother-in-law LaMar (Linda) From, brother-in-law Marc From and Teresa Anderson From, and sister-in-law Gina (Steve) Allender; by his children, Brian (JoAnna) Phipps, Aaron (Sharon) Phipps, Jesse (Tonya May) Phipps, and Amber (Tom) Williams; by his grandchildren, Garrett (Racheall) Phipps, Elliot Phipps, Emily Phipps, Chloe Williams, Cameron Williams, Everett Phipps, and Brendan Phipps; and by numerous nieces and nephews. To share a photo, memory, and sign the family's online guest book please visit www.stegengafuneralchapel.com
Memorial Service
AUG 11. 2:00 PM (EDT)
Plainfield Christian Church
7255 Pine Island Dr. NE
Comstock Park, MI, 49321