Wilamae Bockstahler

September 26, 1935 ~
April 11, 2022

Wilamae Bockstahler, age 86, of Caledonia passed away on Monday, April 11, 2022. She was preceded in death by her husband of 65 years, Ralph. She will be lovingly remembered by her daughters, Diana (Michael) Kooistra, Marjorie (Steve) Habegger, Mary (Edward) Brayton; special family friend, Phyllis (Mike) Andrusiak and family; grandchildren, Adam Habegger, Sarah (Jon) Morgan, Kelly (Tim) Weber, Amanda Doty; many great grandchildren; sister, Greta Solomonson; sisters-in-law, Geraldine Gowans, Barbara Herkner; several nieces and nephews. Wila enjoyed the outdoors, loved gardening and walking the beach in Leland, MI and wintered at her condo in Florida. She was a teacher’s aide for 22 years for Caledonia Public Schools. Wila was a dedicated member of St. Paul Lutheran Church, participated in Ladies Aid, Bell Choir and LWML. Funeral services will be held 11 am Wednesday, April 20, at St. Paul Lutheran Church, 8436 Kraft Ave. SE, Caledonia with Pastor David Miller officiating. Relatives and friends may meet the family Tuesday from 4-7 pm at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 616 E. Main St. SE, Caledonia, and one hour prior to the service Wednesday at church. Burial and committal service at St. Paul Lutheran Church in Cedar, MI, to be held at a later date with Rev. Dr. Timothy Brandt officiating. The family would like to thank Faith Hospice of Trillium Woods for her end-of-life care. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to St Paul’s Ladies Aid or to the American Cancer Society.

Visitation
Tuesday, April 19
4:00pm - 7:00pm

MKD - Caledonia
616 E. Main St. SE
Caledonia, MI 49316
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Visitation
Wednesday, April 20
10:00am - 11:00am

St. Paul Lutheran Church
8436 Kraft Ave
Caledonia, MI 49316
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Funeral Service
Wednesday, April 20
11:00am

St. Paul Lutheran Church
8436 Kraft Ave
Caledonia, MI 49316
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April 25, 2022 12:36pm
So sorry to learn of the passing of your mom, she will be missed.

- Dana Cavner Maynard

April 19, 2022 11:43am
As a 1st grader at Caledonia Elementary, I looked forward to getting out of class and going to read with Mrs. Bockstahler. I am sure that others felt the same throughout her 22 years at Caledonia. We will miss seeing her throughout the summer in Leland and send our condolences to the whole family.

- Abe Mulvihill

April 17, 2022 5:53pm
Diana, thinking of you and Michael and sending my sympathy to you. Blessings on you .

- Alice Donahue

April 12, 2022 8:15pm
We will so miss our Aunt Wila. She was so full of great and vibrant energy, and always with a smile on her face. Some of my fondest childhood memories are visiting the house in Caledonia and eating Wila's delicious pies, turkey, and potatoes. Her presence in Leland was a pillar to the community and to us. I'm so glad my children got to know her. She will be missed.

- Bill Solomonson




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