Tommy Kooiker, Jr.

November 29, 1961 ~
January 12, 2024

Tommy Farr Kooiker, Jr. went to be with the Lord unexpectedly on Friday, January 12, 2024 at the age of 62. He will be greatly missed by family and friends-everyone who met him quickly called him a friend.

Tom loved spending time with his family, whether at his home on Big Brower Lake where he could beat them in all card games, or on the sidelines of his grandchildren’s sporting events where he would be their biggest fan. When he’s not cheering on his grandkids, you could find him cheering on the Lions (a faithful lifelong fan, even all the years that they were awful!), the Wolverines as they won the Rose Bowl and National Title, or his favorite baseball team, the Tigers. He showed his love through constant teasing, devotion of his time, and unfailing patience (especially for his wife who is constantly late). Tom was deeply committed to his relationship with Christ and centered that in all he did. We are comforted by the promise of Heaven and the hope that we will someday be reunited with him. He was a quiet man, although you wouldn’t know that if you heard him singing off tune in church or loudly laughing at his own jokes, and it was this quiet demeanor and selflessness that made him everyone’s steady rock.

Tom is survived by his wife of 42 years, Holly (Noor); four children, Tommy, Josh, Marie (Scott Endres), and Drew (Renee); grandchildren, Aleasha, Melissah, Trevor, Shealynn, Elin, Declan, Corbin, Landon, and Avery; mother, Darla Kooiker; siblings, Tereasa (Bart) Vander Iest, Kathy (Tim) Hoffman, Sandy (Greg) Klifman, Tim (Kelley) Kooiker, and Jason (Jen) Kooiker. He is also survived by his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Ed and Luella Noor; and sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Tracie (Neil) Swanson, Thom (Gwen) Noor, Sheila (Matt) Drenth; and several nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be held at 11 am on Thursday, January 18, 2024 at Hanley Christian Reformed Church, 0-372 Jackson St., Grandville with Pastor Bill Flavin officiating. Burial will take place at Floral View Memorial Gardens. Relatives and friends may meet the family Wednesday 5-8 pm at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville) 4145 Chicago Dr. SW. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to World Renew.

Visitation
Wednesday, January 17
5:00pm - 8:00pm

MKD - Grandville
4145 Chicago Dr. SW
Grandville, MI 49418
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Phone: (616) 534-8656

Funeral Service
Thursday, January 18
11:00am

Hanley Christian Reformed Church
372 Jackson St SW,
Grandville, MI 49418
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Leave Your Tribute Message

February 06, 2024 11:44am
May God’s grace and peace be with you. May joyful memories soothe the grief and give you comfort.

- Tamarah Andras (Tammy Owen)

January 26, 2024 3:40pm
We are so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. Sincere condolences to Holly and her family. We pray you find peace in your memories of him.

- Jerry & Georgi Kooiker

January 17, 2024 5:55pm
Thinking of you and your family. Sorry for your loss.

- Mike Vogel

January 15, 2024 6:02pm
I am so sorry for your loss Holly. Your husband sounded like a wonderful man.

- Christy Zuidema

January 15, 2024 12:29pm
I want to send my deepest sympathies to Holly the kids, and the rest of the family. I have such great memories of Tom, he always made me feel welcome. I am sure his awesome demeanor, and smile and laugh will live on through his kids and grandkids. I will keep the family in my prayers, for comfort and peace.

- Kris Wenzler Rohloff

January 13, 2024 4:10pm
So sorry for your loss Holly and family. Ours prayers are with you and your family.

- Jenni Westra




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