Thomas Dempsey, age 55, Kent County Corporate Counsel, passed away on Thursday, August 24, 2017, after a short but fierce battle with cancer. A good man taken too soon. Thomas was a charismatic, loyal and loving father and friend. He was known for his quick wit and “dad” humor. He was always friendly, open and welcoming to everyone he met. Tom sought the small joys in life, making new friends, cultivating a taste for good food and finding great deals on dry red wine. He loved the water, as seen in his days as a competitive swimmer in high school to his summer weekends sailing on Lake Michigan with his wife and son. When he wasn’t on his boat or socializing with friends and family, Tom could often be found in a quiet corner, deep into the pages of a new sci-fi/fantasy novel. Tom graduated from St. Ignatius College Prep in 1980, attended the University of Illinois Urbana-Champagne, culminating his education at Loyola School of Law. Before his time as an attorney for Kent County, Tom served as the city manager of Portland, MI and prior to that, as a village manager of Sparta, MI. He also previously worked as an attorney in Grand Rapids and in Oak Park, IL. When it comes to achievements and success, Tom was always the proudest of his family. He found his soul mate in 1988, they married and he dedicated the rest of his life to loving her and raising their three children together. Tom is survived by his wife Karen; children, Travis Dempsey, Christine (Ronald) Kemker, James Dempsey; grandchild, Channing Dempsey; parents, James and Julia Dempsey; siblings, Laura (Tim) Gens, Leonora Dempsey, Terrance (Anne) Dempsey. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 11 am Thursday, August 31 at St. Pius X Catholic Church, 3937 Wilson Ave. SW, Grandville, with Fr. Chris Rouech Celebrant. Interment Georgetown Township Cemetery. Relatives and friends may meet the family 2-4 and 6-8 pm Wednesday, August 30, 2017 at Matthysse-Kuiper-DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville), 4145 Chicago Drive SW and on Thursday from 10-10:45 am at church prior to the service. A prayer vigil will be held at 8 pm Wednesday following the visitation at the funeral home. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Freedom Farm Therapeutic Riding Center.
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August 18, 2021 12:45pm
So very sorry to hear this sad news. I went to college with Tom and remember him as a good man and loyal friend. Condolences to the family.
- Jay Becker
September 05, 2017 5:21am
Having recently lost my father to cancer, I sympathize with you and am so very sorry for your loss. It leaves a huge gap to lose someone who has brought joy and so much support at an early age.
God Bless.
- Jonathan Curtiss
August 31, 2017 2:59pm
Karen and family
So SORRY for your loss!
There are No words you have not already heard!!!!
Hugs
- Cathy O
August 31, 2017 6:27am
My deepest sympathies to the family of Mr Dempsey. May the words at 2 Corinthians 1:3,4 be of comfort.
- Marissa
August 30, 2017 5:05pm
Karen - We are very sorry to hear of your loss and are keeping you in our thoughts. We wish you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
- Jeff and Julie Thelen
August 30, 2017 3:41pm
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. We will always remember his smile and how her always made people feel welcome no matter where he was.
- Tim and Barb Falor
August 30, 2017 3:32am
My thoughts and prayers to all of Tom's family and friends. We graduated from St. Ignatius together: he was a genuinely nice and good man.
- William Pettengill
August 29, 2017 1:25pm
I'm sorry for your loss.
- Fabian Perez
August 29, 2017 10:58am
Prayers of strength and healing to Karen, Travis, Christine and Jim during this time of sorrow. May the Lord cradle you in his arms.
- Candice Russell
August 28, 2017 11:00am
My condolences to you and your family. So sad so young, what a loss. Will keep you our prayers.
- Chris Trinchere
August 28, 2017 6:50am
I'm going to miss you Tom. We shared City Management and Sailing. You were always kind and considerate which is much needed in the world today. Fair Winds.
- Ron Howell
August 28, 2017 4:36am
Randy and I are so very sorry for your loss. He was such a good man and always welcoming and helpful. We have only fond memories him.
- Randy and Vicki Morey
August 26, 2017 5:01am
Dear Dempsey Family,
I pray for joy for you, as you celebrate the life, and comfort, when mourning the loss of Tom. He had to leave this world far too soon.
Warm regards,
Maria Dunn
- Maria Dunn
August 25, 2017 10:02pm
I have many memories of Tom and his family within the 4H community. Our girls grew up together and this is such a loss! My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.
- Brenda Bera-Alters
August 25, 2017 1:29pm
Tom and I were high school classmates at St. Ignatius, and were teammates on the swim team. He was quiet, genuine and fun to be around. My condolences.
- Darren Wethers