Terry Alan Fay

February 19, 1949 ~
August 8, 2025

Terry Fay, age 76, of Grand Rapids passed away on Friday, August 8, 2025 and went to be with the Lord. He was preceded in death by his father, Kenneth Fay; mother, Louise Highland; sister, Patricia Harrison; and infant granddaughter, Aleyana. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife of fifty-one and a half years, Christine; his sons, Scott (Alisa), and Jamie, bonus son, Jarmal “Spud” Carter, his daughter, Allyson (Josh); 16 grandchildren, William (Molly), Devin (Autumn), Xavier, Dakota (Brian), Domonick, Jamie Jr, Alizjah and fiance, Mang, Jevario, Makayla, Talayah, Keara, Nathen, Anastazjah, Jakobe, Jyana, Jaleigh-ana; 17 great grandchildren; his brothers; Kenneth, Jim (Vonnie); many nieces and nephews, cousins and friends. Terry loved his Detroit Lions and Michigan Wolverines, but he really loved his Detroit Tigers. One of his absolute favorite memories was when he coached both of his sons’ little league baseball teams. He loved playing baseball with both of his sons and their friends. He loved bowling and tinkering in his yard. Funeral services will be held 11 am Thursday, August 21, 2025 at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 4031 Clyde Park Ave SW, Wyoming.  Burial will be held at Rosedale Memorial Park. Relatives and friends may meet the family Thursday, August 21 from 10am until the time of the service at the funeral home. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to the family to help with funeral costs.

Visitation
Thursday, August 21
10:00am - 11:00am

MKD - Wyoming
4031 Clyde Park Ave. SW
Wyoming, MI 49509
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Phone: (616) 534-5417

Funeral Service
Thursday, August 21
11:00am

MKD - Wyoming
4031 Clyde Park Ave. SW
Wyoming, MI 49509
Get Directions

Phone: (616) 534-5417

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August 23, 2025 7:35pm
Correction: grandpas house on Rose St!! So many memories there ! 💗

- Sierra ingram

August 23, 2025 7:34pm
I was just sitting in front of my grandparents house in rise telling my boyfriend about mr fay and how we knew him since kids there! I will always remember him in that chair outside! My condolences to your family 🙏rip Mr fay, we love you too!

- Sierra ingram

August 23, 2025 6:32pm
So sorry to hear of Terrys passing. He was a good person. Condolences to Chris, Allyson Scott, and Jamie. Rest in peace Terry.

- Cindy Ingram

August 16, 2025 12:56am
I always thought you were the cool dad! Even gave me some encouraging words when we all worked at G.R. Plastics, the love you had for your boys was truly amazing, you even yelled at us all like we were your kids when you said time for yall to go home lol even tho we never did lol! Forever n always 🕊️

- Shawnie Crider

August 15, 2025 9:31pm
There’s never enough time to say everything we wish we could’ve when we had the chance to, I can only pray you are resting peacefully and smiling down on the rest of us as we wait to reunite with you in the future. Please continue to look over us as we come together to get through the hardest times. We love and miss you everyday, Grandpa. You will forever shine in our memories. Take it easy ♡

- Alizjah Fay

August 15, 2025 10:38am
I’d like to send my condolences to the family at this time. Rest in heaven Terry. You will be truly missed.

- Virginia Shrepard

August 15, 2025 12:00am
I love & miss you so much dad!! I promise we'll take good care of mom. Love you always!! Scott

- Scott Fay

August 14, 2025 11:36pm
Hey Grandpa, I miss you… I can’t believe you’re gone. It doesn’t feel real. I miss you everyday and think about you everyday, you were my best friend, the one person I didn’t wanna see leave. It hurts knowing I’ll never get to hear your laugh, or your voice, or you in general. I miss your jokes, I miss you saying “what’s up buster?” to me. You always seemed to put a smile on my face. I love you Grandpa, I’ll forever cherish the memories I had with you, I wish I had more tho, I feel like I didnt have enough with you. It’s never goodbye, it’s only see you later.

- Jevario Fay

August 14, 2025 7:08am
Love you Dad!!

- Jamie Fay

August 13, 2025 9:32pm
I cant believe you are gone, I cry for you everyday. You were my best friend, it hurts so bad that I will never get another phone call from you, and hear your voice and hear your laugh. Dad I love and miss you so much. It's so hard to do everyday things without crying. I would give anything for you to be here. I love you so much forever and always.

- Allyson Fay




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