Stephen Scott Kurecka

December 5, 1985 ~
April 14, 2023

Stephen Scott Kurecka, 37, of Grand Rapids, MI passed away on Friday, April 14, 2023 surrounded by his loved ones following a brief and brave battle with Lymphoma.

Stephen was born on December 5, 1985 and grew up in Chesaning, MI. He studied at Central Michigan University and received a bachelor’s degree in Political Science. He spent his career working for the State of Michigan in various roles with the Department of Health and Human Services and recently began a new job within the Department of Legislative Affairs as a Departmental Analyst. Stephen was a dedicated public servant and spent over a decade with the State of Michigan and was well respected and trusted by all his colleagues for his knowledge and passion for his work.

Stephen’s love of politics transcended beyond his degree and career and he loved writing his own political blog and sharing his love of democracy with others. He was a true believer of the power each individual in this country has to effect change and was an advocate for the rights of all.

Stephen was an avid runner, running in the Chicago marathon, many half marathons, 10ks and 5ks. Stephen also enjoyed karaoke on Thursday nights with his core group of friends. He even had a stint as Rocky in the Rocky Horror Picture Show shadow cast in Grand Rapids for a time, making everyone laugh with his antics on stage.

Stephen was also an ordained minister and performed wedding ceremonies for his loved ones, including his sister, Stacey. His wit, charm, and authenticity made for a beautiful and cherished memory for those whom he provided this gift.

Loved ones describe Stephen as kind, dependable, hardworking, and able to make others smile with his wit and sarcasm. He had the biggest heart and respected all living things; he was even known to save spiders to put them back outside.

In 2016, he met his future wife, Leah, and both knew very early on that their relationship was special and meant to be. He proposed in 2019 and despite the setback from having to postpone their wedding a year due to COVID, they finally shared the best day of their lives on September 24, 2021. He was a wonderful husband and always remembered to take the garbage out. He and Leah also shared a miniature goldendoodle named Gerry who loved tug of war rounds with Stephen.

He is survived by his wife, Leah Lappan; mother, Fran; father, John; sisters, Sarah Kurecka, Stacey (Aaron) Blehm; nephews, Caleb and Connor; parents-in-law, John and Denise Lappan; brother-in-law, Nicholas Lappan; as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins.

Memorial services will be held 2 pm Saturday, April 22, 2023 at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 4646 Kalamazoo Ave. SE, Kentwood. Relatives and friends may meet the family Saturday from 1-2 pm at the funeral home prior to the service. In lieu of flowers, the family wishes that donations be made in Stephen’s name to the Lymphoma Research Foundation and the Immune Deficiency Foundation.

Memorial Visitation
Saturday, April 22
1:00pm - 2:00pm

MKD - Kentwood
4646 Kalamazoo Ave. SE
Kentwood, MI 49508
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Phone: (616) 455-1535

Memorial Service
Saturday, April 22
2:00pm

MKD - Kentwood
4646 Kalamazoo Ave. SE
Kentwood, MI 49508
Get Directions

Phone: (616) 455-1535

Leave Your Tribute Message

April 23, 2023 3:12pm
I am so very sorry to learn of the passing of Stephen. His dad, John, is my first cousin. I am praying for all of Stephen’s family and wishing you peace and love. Mary Kathryn Kurecka Trombley

- Mary Kathryn Kurecka Trombley

April 22, 2023 8:02am
Our deepest sympathies. Our prayers are with all of you. May Stephen rest in peace. Don and Karen Kurecka (cousin of John Kurecka)

- Don Kurecka

April 20, 2023 7:00pm
We are so sad, John Lappan spoke so highly of Stephen .... said what a wonderful man and husband he was.

- Carol and Max Lund

April 19, 2023 9:06pm
Stephen was always there when I needed a friend, and the world has truly lost one of the kindest souls I've ever had the pleasure of knowing.

- Eric

April 19, 2023 8:01am
You taught me about life and I will carry that part of you with me forever.

- Dad

April 18, 2023 10:23pm
Stephen- I am lucky to call you a neighbor and a friend from our days at Big Rock to our weddings in the last few years. Thinking of you and your family.

- Christina Zink (Cannon)

April 18, 2023 4:35pm
So sorry to hear about Steve's passing. I'll be keeping all of his loved ones in my thoughts.

- Teresa Stein

April 18, 2023 3:33pm
My apologies for making a mistake in who was my mother's brother. It was Frank, not John as I mentioned. Sometimes getting older has its down moments.

- Sr. Gretchen Sills

April 18, 2023 2:07pm
Be assured of my deepest sympathy on your loss. Also know Stephen and you his family will be in my daily prayers. Stephen's love and memory will continue through your love for him. Gretchen Sillsmain

- Sr. Gretchen Sills, OP My mother Amelia Kurecka S

April 18, 2023 7:21am
Leah, I am so sorry. You were so devoted to him. I wish you the best and pray for your healing.

- Heidi Parent-Leonard

April 17, 2023 9:38pm
Love you forever big brother.

- Sarah Kurecka

April 17, 2023 7:48pm
Stephen, you were always and forever will be someone I always looked up to. I remember wanting to always just follow you around like a typical little sister. Even if that was just watching you play video games; I think you were annoyed by that but never told me to go away. You always had a way with words, you officiating my wedding made me feel so comfortable. I’ll never be as great of a runner as you were, but I’m so glad you were with me and encouraged me to run my first 5k. Love you forever big brother.

- Stacey Blehm

April 17, 2023 6:51pm
I love you forever and I know you’re at peace and free of pain. I wish we had longer together, but I’m so grateful for what we had.

- Leah Lappan




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