Sharon Vander Haar

December 19, 1942 ~
November 5, 2022

Sharon Lynn (Cotter) Vander Haar, age 79, of Byron Center, passed away on Saturday, November 5, 2022. She will be lovingly remembered by her husband of 56 years, George; children, Lori (Mark) Snyder, Wendy (Tim) Underwood, Jennifer (Dave) Nicholson, Scott (Lisa) Vander Haar; grandchildren, Briana (Kodi) Shroll, Andrew (Alexandrea) Snyder, Erin Synder, Rachael Underwood, Andrea Underwood, Reid Nicholson, Drake Nicholson, and Ryan Vander Haar; siblings, Carol Hiller and Dale (Betty) Cotter; and several in-laws, nieces, and nephews. Sharon was preceded in death by her brother, Jerry Cotter; and sisters, Joan Berghouse and Joyce Kuipers. She was born in McBain, Michigan, to Manley and Ellenore Cotter. She moved to Grand Rapids and went to Davenport College, met the love of her life, George, and earned a secretarial degree. Sharon enjoyed singing, dancing, playing the piano, traveling to bowling tournaments with George, and wintering in Florida. Her greatest joy was spending time with her family and supporting her grandchildren with their many activities. A memorial service will be held on Friday, November 11, 2022, at 11 a.m. at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville) 4145 Chicago Dr. SW. Relatives and friends may meet the family Friday from 10-11 a.m. at the funeral home prior to the service.

Memorial Visitation
Friday, November 11
10:00am - 11:00am

MKD - Grandville
4145 Chicago Dr. SW
Grandville, MI 49418
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Phone: (616) 534-8656

Memorial Service
Friday, November 11
11:00am

MKD - Grandville
4145 Chicago Dr. SW
Grandville, MI 49418
Get Directions

Phone: (616) 534-8656

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November 09, 2022 11:08am
George and family: Sorry to hear of Sharon’s passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time Bud and Ruth Ann ‘

- Bud Bouma

November 08, 2022 9:39pm
Sharon was an absolute cornerstone in shaping the person I became, and that's saying something considering I only saw her 1-2 times a year when I was growing up. She was the epitome of kindness, love and grace. This space that I'm typing in cannot possibly hold an appropriate tribute for the person she was, but I'm forever thankful to have known her, and to have been invited into their family. I will never forget her. ~Jason Swanson

- Jason Swanson

November 07, 2022 10:03pm
Sympathy to the whole family

- Sherwin and. Greta Heybiet

November 07, 2022 8:08pm
My Aunt Sharon was a beautiful and wonderful person in every way and she loved her Lord with her while heart!! She was always looking on the positive side of everything. She was fun to be around, gracious, kind, willing to help someone when they needed it. She loved being with her family whether it was her immediate family or her extended family. Her smile was contagious as was her laughter. She was loved and will be missed but not forgotten! My prayer for all of you is that the heart ache will pass and memories will grow sweeter. Love you all Karen VM

- Karen VanderMolen

November 07, 2022 6:45pm
Sharon was so wonderful with such a beautiful smile, she will be sorely missed! You are in our thoughts and prayers.

- Max Frank Zamarripa




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