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Remembering Ruthe Toonstra

Ruthe Kathleen (VanHouten) Toonstra, age 89, of Jenison, Michigan, went to be with the Lord on Sunday, July 3, 2022. She was preceded in death by her loving husband of 56 years, Elmer Toonstra; brothers, John (Bertha) VanHouten, Jay VanHouten, and Dave VanHouten; sister, Jo (Marv) Huizingh; brothers-in-law, Henry (Henrietta) Toonstra, and Rev. Martin (Joyce) Toonstra; and sisters-in-law, Sylvia (Bob) Westra, Jo (Bob) Turner, and Jeannette (Harold) Barber. She will be lovingly remembered by her children, Jill and Henry Jr. Dahm, Mary and Randy Shaheen, and Dan and Kim Toonstra; grandchildren, Jessica (Dahm) and Nathin Peters, Henry Joshua and Katie Dahm, Jenna (Dahm) and Joel Birky, Justin Elmer Dahm, Jonathan Shaheen and Sara Bergen, Nora Shaheen, Emily Shaheen, Amy Shaheen, Zachary and Heather Toonstra, Meghan Toonstra, and Alex (Toonstra) and Brandon Benoit; great-grandchildren, Henry, Asher, EllaMae, and Isaac Dahm; Olivia and Wyatt Toonstra, Ella and Colton Toonstra; sister-in-law, Linda VanHouten; brothers-in-law, Ed (Marilyn) Toonstra, and Arnie (Thea) Toonstra. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, July 9, 2022, at 11 a.m. at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville) 4145 Chicago Dr. SW. The burial will take place at Winchester Cemetery. Relatives and friends may meet the family Saturday from 10-11 a.m. at the funeral home prior to the service. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to Unity Christian High School.

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Prayers for your family in the recent death of your Mom. She was such a gracious lady. I remember your folks well. Wonderful members at Baldwin St CRC.

— Linda Krol Brinks

To the Toonstra family. Thoughts and prayers for you all, so many great memories growing up camping, snowmobiling and sleepovers. So blessed to have known your family and parents growing up.

— Joel and Linda Wondergem

We are so sorry for the loss of Ruthe. She was a really special person and will be really missed. We are thankful she is with Jesus and her loved ones in heaven. Our prayers are with you as you celebrate her life and grieve your loss.

— Janie and Ken Randell

We are so sad to hear of the loss of your special Mom. We have so many memories of your Mom and Dad, hosting family get-togethers when we were on home service. And of course the monthly Toonstra coffee times, and Thanksgiving celebrations as a child. Your Mom and Dad lives out their faith in every aspect of their lives, and blessed many people. May the Lord give you His comfort and peace in this time of mourning. With our love and prayers, Pam and Gary Van Veen

— Pam and Gary Van Veen

The Toonstra family.Sorry for your loss of your Mother, she was a wonderful lady and will be missed. Had many memories of camping with the family, great times

— Bob Danielson

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