Obituary

Remembering Nancy Ellen Ulrich

Nancy Ellen Ulrich, age 83, passed away peacefully on the evening of September 6, 2026, surrounded by the love of her family and friends.
Born on January 11, 1943, Nancy lived a life defined by kindness, compassion, and a genuine love for others. Family and friends were always at the center of her life.  She had a remarkable ability to make people feel loved and cared for.  Her warmth extended not only to her family and friends but also to animals and to those in need.
Nancy shared 26 years of marriage with her loving husband, Jim Kienlen. Together they built a life filled with family, friendship, and many wonderful memories.
She is lovingly remembered by her son, Jeff (Rebecca) Ulrich and grandchildren, Justin and Olivia. She is also lovingly remembered by Jim’s son, Chris (Nicole) Kienlen and grandchildren, Cole (Kristen), Taylor (Kitt) and Kennedy as well as Jim’s daughter, Kari (J) and grandchildren, Haven and Seren.  Jim and Nancy were also blessed with great grandchildren Logan, Haylee and Gracie.  She is also survived by her brother Milt (Barb) and his children Keith (Karen) and Cindi (Mike) as well as her sister-in-law Vicky and her daughter Kristen.
Nancy was preceded in death by her parents Charles and Martha Miller, Stepmother Stella Miller, brother Dave Miller, niece Kendra Groenhout and nephew Brion Miller.  She is also preceded in death by Jim’s parents Roy and Mable Kienlen and their son Bob Kienlen.
For most of her professional career, Nancy worked as a paralegal with Smith Haughey Rice & Roegge. Beyond her career, she volunteered with hospice, animal shelters, and the Godwin Golden G’s, reflecting the compassion that was such a natural part of who she was.
She was incredibly kind and loving to everyone she met.  She leaves behind a legacy of love, compassion, and generosity. She will be deeply missed and forever loved.
Funeral services will be held at 11 am Friday, September 25 at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 1601 Post Drive NE, Belmont, with Rev. Christopher Meehan officiating.  Relatives and friends may meet the family from 6-8 pm on Thursday, September 24, at the funeral home and on Friday, one hour prior to the service. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Godwin Golden G scholarship or the West Michigan Humane Society would be an honor to Nancy.
 

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When Kari and I first met Nancy, she pulled up in a yellow stingray Corvette, so we knew right away. She was cool. I remember she was nicely dressed wearing a fuzzy turtleneck sweater. When Dad introduced us, she hugged us in the whole exchange felt like we already knew her, our first impression was Nancy was incredibly kind yet strong and confident. Over the years we got to know her better and we saw how she used that kindness and strength to love people well. She loves so well she brought out the best in my dad, and together they did an incredible job, caring for the entire family and set a great example for all of us. As I’ve gotten older, I come to realize the true measure of a life well lived is how well we love others and Nancy got an A+. Nancy, thank you for all the love, kindness and blessings you brought to our lives. You can rest now, knowing that your spirit and love will live on and all of us. Dad the way you loved and cared for Nancy was beautiful and we're so proud of you. Jeff, you were blessed with a wonderful mother, and she loved you so much. She was thankful to have such a great son. We love you, Nancy. The Kienlens

— Chris Kienlen

You are in my thoughts, and I offer my heartfelt sympathy during this time of loss.

— George Rosnick

There are some people that love so completely that they become part of your foundation. Nancy was an extraordinary woman who stepped into my life and loved me and my family like her own. She was Nanny Nancy.❤️ Though the void she leaves behind is immeasurable.The unconditional love, strength, wisdom and friendship she gifted us with will be with us forever. Rest in peace Nancy. 💕 you will be missed terribly.

— Kari k dubel

I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of Nancy. I worked with her at Smith Haughey Rice &Roegge;, I remember her laugh and she always had a smile on her beautiful face. My thoughts are with her family.

— Lisa Olmetti-O’Loughlin

Jim...To the great Kienlan and Ulrich familes, my deepest sympathies. Jim, I can only imagine your pain, my friend. Nancy was so beautiful both inside and out. May she rest in peace.

— Gary Brey

Our prayers are with Nancy’s family and friends. I worked with Nancy at Smith Haughey and she was one of the best - thoughtful, kind, humorous, caring, and key to building teamwork and safe environments for improving the workplace. And in the years after we worked together we would see each other occasionally and she would greet me like an old friend and we would catch up and laugh. We all are better for having shared some time with Nancy. Peace, my friend! Well done and thank you! T.J. Ackert

— TJ Ackert

So sorry to your family, you will be missed my dear friend.

— Ruth Denbroeder

The first time I met Nancy I was running late to my first ever annual resident meeting. I was new to the area and had gone to the wrong church and then the wrong entrance and by the time I got there the meeting was well underway. I stood sort of helpless trying to figure out where to sit and wondering if I was once again in the wrong place when Nancy jumped up and came over. She introduced herself with a huge smile and wrapped her arm around me and said, “Please, come sit at our table. There is plenty of room.” There wasn’t – she made room. I was so grateful for her kindness and compassion and throughout the entire meeting she just kept checking in with me asking if I had questions and answering me when I did. It was the first time I’d truly felt welcomed into what became a lovely community. After that I ended up having the honor of working with her on the board for that very association and I was always impressed by her drive and her compassion. She’d take it upon herself to always investigate things a step further, putting in the extra phone calls and really digging deep into any issues that came up to get to the heart of them. At one point I mentioned to her some of the financial strain I was under – a passing sigh in conversation about dues and before the week was over Nancy researched and emailed me links to organizations and grants that might be able to help. When I thanked her for her kindness and assistance she shrugged it off and assured me, “We’ve all been there at some point in our lives.” She was just that kind of person. She didn’t judge she just went about seeing how she could help. I miss her words of encouragement and her go get’em attitude. Mostly though, I just miss her smile. You could see Nancy smiling from several condos down. I don’t think there was ever a time I saw her walking around the neighborhood when she didn’t have a smile on her face. She was beautiful inside and out. To her family: I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you know she was well loved in this community. She made this place, and my life, brighter for being in it and it was a blessing to know and work with her.

— Rachel R

Dear Jim, Jeff, and Family: I am so sorry for the loss of Nancy - an incredible human and a dear friend. Meeting at SHR&R so many years ago - we became and continued to be close friends. In addition to working together, we enjoyed activities outside of work with our village of co-workers, families and friends. Living in California the past 20 years, we stayed in touch - sharing news about our growing families and connecting on the ups and downs of life. Gorgeous, brilliant, feisty, fun loving, courageous and kind are a few adjectives to describe her. I admired her ability to stand firm in her convictions regardless of who might disagree with her. She was compassionate and a safe place for others to share their challenges. RIP my dear friend. You are in my heart always. Love. Patti

— Patti Brink

I was blessed to call Nancy my friend during the many years I worked with her at SHRR. I have many memories of laughter and fun times with her, playing golf, at parties, exercise class and I even had the honor to photograph her and Jim's wedding. She truly had a loving and joyful spirit. My condolences to Jim, Jeff and all of her family and loved ones.

— Mary Kay Groening

My dear friend, you will surely be missed by many and always be remembered for your kindness and love for others. We made many memories over the years and shared lots of laughter. As long as there’s a memory, you live in our hearts. RIP My friend.

— Connie LeValley

So many tears and laughs over the years. You truly were one in a million Nance.towi

— Kathy Verhey

RIP my dear Nancy, I will cherish all the memories of you but most of all the beautiful person you were and the friendship we shared. My heart is broken for Jim, Jeff & the entire family. We will be together one day Nancy, I will always Love you❤️🙏

— Vicky Miller

It is a great privilege to have shared a working career with Nancy, a rare representative of all that is good in human nature.

— larry mullligan

My dear friend you will be deeply missed by all who knew you. Fly high my friend <3

— Sue Roug

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