Mary Ellen VanOostendorp

VanOostendorp, Mary Ellen Mary Ellen VanOostendorp (Cook) went to be with the Lord on Monday, May 26, 2014 after her hard fought battle against cancer. She was born on July 5, 1955 in Grand Rapids, Michigan. By her side when she passed was her loving husband of 37 years, Jack (John IV); her two children, John V (Sarah) and Paula (Tyson) Hoekstra; her grandchild, Caleb, soon to be newborn grandbaby; sister, Beverly (David) Kooiman; and niece and nephew Abbey and Nick Kooiman. She is also survived by her father, Franklin Cook; her mother-in-law, Gertrude VanOostendorp; her brother-in-law, Doug VanOostendorp; sister, Ruth Kluk; brother, Robert Cook; and many, many family and friends. In her younger days, Mary enjoyed playing softball and bowling, but her real passion was golf that came later. She was also a very devoted Michigan football fan and was not shy to hang her Michigan golf bag next to her husband's Michigan State bag. Mary also enjoyed the family vacations, especially to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Funeral services for Mary will be held Friday at 11:00 am at the Kentwood Community Church, 1200 – 60th St. SE (use the Prayer Chapel entrance). Interment in Pine Hill Cemetery.  Members of the family will receive relatives and friends at the Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Chapel (Kentwood), 4646 Kalamazoo SE Thursday 6-9 pm and at the church on Friday from 10 am until the time of the service.  The family would like to say a special thank you to everyone in the Kentwood Community Church Golf league, her co-workers at Crestwood Middle School and Kentwood Public School system, and bowling family for all the prayers, love and support you’ve shown.  In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to The Cancer Society of America, or Faith Hospice who provided great care and compassion during her last few weeks. 

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
I am thankful you are no longer suffering Aunt Mary. My prayers now are for family as they mourn the loss. Love you all very much. Aneke, Ben and Kids Aneke van Baal

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
What a beautiful person inside and out. Thank you for being a ray of sunshine to all that you knew. Kara Jones

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
Mary was a beautiful lady, and was like a second mother to my daughter, Sheana. Her struggle is over but her spirit is still with us in her children and grandchildren. Kathleen Barnes

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
So very sorry for you and your family Sarah. Peace, prayers, and blessings. Jody Korn

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
I feel truly blessed to have had Mary in my life. She was an inspiration to all and we loved her smile and beauty. JoAnn Goggins

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
I remember Mary from the choir and KCC golf league. She was always smiling and pleasant to others. My deepest condolences to Jack and the family at this difficult time. Walking with God each day and trusting his plan is the best healing I've received from the loss of my husband, John. God was faithful in my mourning and my morning. I am deeply sorry for your loss and hopeful for HIS comfort in your recovery. Cheri Bowden(Hess)

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
Your in our thoughts and prayers. Sue Zimmerman

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
You are all in my thoughts and prayers....you will be greatly missed Mary. We all Love U and grateful you are in a much better place. Kathy Heidtke

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
Jack - I am sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and your family. Chris Choryan

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
Although we never met in person I knew Mary as the Crestwood athletic secretary and her sense of humor made our interactions great fun. My sincere sympathy to her hubby and family, she will be truly missed. Sally Kolekamp

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
My prayers are with you all through this time. Thinking of all of you. Melissa Williams

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
Jack, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult of times. May peace find you and all those around you. Jesse Schreiber

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March 26, 2015 10:26am
I am deeply saddened at the loss of my dear friend and college, Mary. For many years we shared a wonderful friendship at Crestwood. Her rapport with staff and students was very positive and she always had a smile for everyone she came in contact with. Now, she smiles with the angels in heaven. You will be missed my dear friend. Greg Hewitt Retired/Crestwood Middle School Greg Hewitt

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