Lori Gibson

March 16, 1965 ~
August 15, 2021

Lori Lynn (Oeffner) Gibson, age 56, of Grandville, MI, passed away on August 15, 2021, at her home after a year-long battle with cancer. Her husband and two sons were at her side when she went to be with the Lord. Lori was born in Detroit, MI on March 16, 1965, and was the daughter of Leo (Donna) Oeffner and the late Betty Oeffner. She is survived by her husband, Joel Gibson; their two sons, Joshua and James; brothers, Kevin (Loree) Oeffner, Mark (Nancy) Oeffner; and numerous nieces and nephews. Lori lived her life as a wonderful Christian example to others, and her faith was unwavering throughout her battle with cancer. She especially touched many with her attitude and outlook over the past year and continued to praise God despite knowing her prognosis was bleak. Lori was the perfect companion to her husband, Joel; they loved each other deeply and were best friends. They were married for 28 years with their most recent anniversary one day prior to her death. She loved spending time with her family, dining out, traveling, attending her kid’s sporting events, and worshipping at Calvary Church of Grand Rapids where she and her husband were members. Her sons meant so much to her and her legacy will live on for years through their lives. Joshua is a professional golfer and Lori loved to watch him play while her husband served as his caddy. James graduated this spring from the University of Michigan and recently joined a pharmaceutical company in Grand Rapids as a chemical engineer. Lori graduated from Wheaton College (B.S., 1986), the University of Michigan (M.S., 1987), and the University of Minnesota (J.D., 1993). After receiving her law degree, Lori worked at the firm Warner Norcross and Judd in Grand Rapids. She practiced employment law and served on the firm’s career development and recruiting committees. Lori also worked as the Director of Human Resources and Vice President of Operations with Spectrum Health Continuing Care in Grand Rapids. Most recently, Lori was the COO of Smith Haughey, Rice and Roegge where she managed business operations of the law firm’s four offices. Lori was intelligent, had a beautiful smile, and touched the lives of so many people over the years. Though her family will miss her greatly, they are thankful to God for his redeeming love which Lori embraced so passionately and are comforted in the assurance that they will see her again. Lori wished to thank Faith Hospice for their compassionate care during the last days of her life. Funeral services will be held on Friday, August 20, 2021, at 11 am at Calvary Church, 707 E. Beltline NE, Grand Rapids, 49525. Burial Boynton Cemetery. Relatives and friends may meet the family Thursday, August 19, from 5-8 pm at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville) 4145 Chicago Dr. SW. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Scarves of Hope Metastatic Breast Cancer Research Fund at www.hopescarves.org.

Visitation
Thursday, August 19
5:00pm - 8:00pm

MKD - Grandville
4145 Chicago Dr. SW
Grandville, MI 49418
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Phone: (616) 534-8656

Funeral Service
Friday, August 20
11:00am

Calvary Church
707 E. Beltline Ave NE
Grand Rapids, MI 49525
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August 27, 2021 3:09pm
Joel, Josh, James and family.....we are so very sorry for your loss of Lori!! Vic & Lori Brooks

- Lori Brooks

August 18, 2021 12:44pm
I didn't know Lori personally, only through prayer requests and some of her posts that her brother Mark, my colleague, shared with me. Lori's beauty as a woman of the Lord shone through in her words and in her smile. I wish that I had been able to meet her in this life, but am grateful that we will get to spend eternity praising our precious Lord and Savior together. Mark and Nancy, please accept my sincere condolences and know that you are in my prayers. To Mr. Oeffner and all of Lori's family - My heart aches at your great loss. May the presence and the comfort of the Holy Spirit sustain you.

- Dawn Malott

August 17, 2021 12:04pm
Joel, Josh, James - My heart breaks for you, and for the rest of us who will no longer be blessed by Lori's presence. She was a dear friend, confidant, and strong presence for so many. But more than anything, she was wife and mother - roles that she cherished more than any others. I will miss her dearly, and I thank you for sharing her with the rest of us for the years that we had with her. Sending you all of my prayers and best wishes for peace and comfort during this difficult time.

- Andrea Bernard

August 17, 2021 11:16am
I have known Lori since she began working with us (Smith Haughey Rice & Roegge) as our COO. She was smart, confident, compassionate, and a great leader. We will miss her personally and professionally. John Kruis

- John Kruis

August 16, 2021 11:38pm
When we were in law school, we were in the same section, and some of us formed a small study group where I got to know Lori better. She was very smart, mature and kind. We will miss you, Lori! Rest in peace!

- Wooj Byun

August 16, 2021 9:08pm
Lori was a role model for many. She was a joy to work with. I gave many fond memories of Lori from our time working together. Heaven has gained an angel! Rest In Peace Lori, you are free and with your heavenly family and friends. One day you will be reunited with your family and friends you left.

- Ed Kape




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