Lillian Paffhausen

Paffhausen, Lillian Lillian Paffhausen, age 89, of Grand Rapids, was placed in the arms of Jesus on Saturday, December 13, 2014. She was preceded in death by her parents, Norman and Mildred Swainston; husband, Ronald; brothers and sisters, Harold Swainston, Norman J. Swainston, Margaret Stouffer, Norma Swainston, Dorothy Colburn. Lillian is survived by her children (grandchildren), Ron and Patricia Paffhausen (Craig Paffhausen and Marla Paffhausen), Norma and Tom Mata (Nora Lynn and Michael Davis), Steven and Pam Paffhausen (Jamie Paffhausen and Wayne Paffhausen), Sharon and Dave Jackson (Monica Jackson, Bruce and Kim Jackson); great granddaughters, Lillian and Abigail; sisters, Marion (Joseph) Lombardo; sister in law, Beatrice Swainston; many nieces and nephews. Lillian enjoyed knitting scarves and sewing quilts for those in need. Funeral Mass will be held on Wednesday, December 17, 11:00 AM at Holy Family Catholic Parish, 9669 Kraft SE. Interment Blaine Cemetery. Members of the family will receive relatives and friends at the Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Chapel (Kentwood), Tuesday 7-9 pm. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Spectrum Hospice.

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March 26, 2015

My condolences to Ron and Norma, along with the rest of the family. That card table in heaven just added another player, along with Ron, Pat, Loris, Betty, Grandma Paffhausen, my mother, Iva Jeane and all the rest of the aunts and uncles I came to know. I always looked forward to seeing aunt Lillian. Seems she always wanted to send me home with some food whenever there was a family get together. She was always nice to me and the rest of the Magnan's. You now can rest in the arms of your family. Paul Magnan

March 26, 2015

I was blessed to know "Granny" through her wonderful granddaughter Monica. The legacy of love that she has left her children and grandchildren will live on forever. I know the joy that Monica shared traveling to London with her. Granny you will be missed. I know that you are in heaven hugging your wonderful husband right now and that you are at peace. Leah Lewis

March 26, 2015

Dear family, My sincere condolences to all of you. This wonderful lady worked for me at Sears, and in my 40 plus years of retail I never had a better employee working for me. I have often wondered how she was doing, and was saddened to see her obituary. I always felt honored when she made visits to see me while working at Seven's after I left Sears. Her memory will always be a part of me, because she also taught me in many ways. May God bless you and your families during this time Loran Bakker

March 26, 2015

Our condolences to the Paffhausen family. I was blessed to be one of Lillian's nieces. I have many memories of the love and hospitality that she showed our family. You could always count on her for a cookie or a homemade treat when we were done riding the cows or playing tag in the hay loft. We look forward to seeing you again in heaven. May the Lord comfort your family during this time of sorrow. Vicki Dawson