Johan “Joe” Betten

January 21, 1934 ~
March 30, 2023

Johan “Joe” Betten, age 89, of Grand Rapids, went home to Heaven on Thursday, March 30, 2023. Joe was the fifth child of seven born to Joseph and Marie (Vroon) Betten. As a pastor’s child, born in Doon, Iowa, he also lived in Highland, Michigan, Western Springs, Illinois, and Lynden, Washington. Joe attended Chicago Christian High and Calvin College. Joe was drafted into the army in March of 1956. During his two years at Fort Carson and in Germany, Joe courted the love of his life through heart-felt letters. He married Verna Ann Ebbers September 30, 1959. They were married for 64 years. Joe spent more than 40 years in the car business culminating with his leadership at Courtesy Dodge. He left a legacy of honesty, integrity and good will as a businessman, colleague, and employer. Joe was a faithful member of Westend Christian Reformed Church. As a husband, dad, grandfather, and great-grandfather “Poppy”, Joe was known to be unconditionally loving, always thinking the best of people, kind and considerate, generous and gentle. His encouraging and non-judgmental spirit made it easy for family members and friends to feel welcome. Joe practiced servant leadership and will be remembered for his humility, courage and standing up for the underdog. Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Marie Betten; siblings, Nela Mae (Cap) Koetje, Tony (Char) Betten, Hank (Esther) Betten, Marge (Wally) Boelkins, Red Betten, and Jean Helder. Survivors include his beloved wife, Verna Betten; children, Jody Betten (Dan Plasman), Bryan (Sandy) Betten, Karry (Jon) Lanning, Brett Betten; grandchildren, Aaron (Jodi) Veldheer, Nika (Michael) Lindsay, Kayla Rice, Micah (Daniel) Plaisier, Sydney Betten, Kaiya Betten, Mason Ter Horst, Mya Ter Horst, Cassie Betten (Griffin Baker), Ryan Betten, Lily Betten, Joey Betten, Ella Betten, and Ava Betten; as well as six great-grandchildren, Lennox, James, Beau, Bella, Zachary, and Maddox. Funeral services will be held on Monday, April 10, 2023, at 4:00 p.m. at Westend Christian Reformed Church, 1015 Westend Ave NW, Grand Rapids, with his daughter, Rev. Jody Betten officiating. The burial will take place at Rosedale Memorial Park. Relatives and friends may meet the family on Monday from 2:30-4:00 p.m. prior to the service at the church. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to His Place Ministries or Mel Trotter Ministries.

Visitation
Monday, April 10
2:30pm - 4:00pm

Westend Christian Reformed Church
1015 Westend Ave NW
Grand Rapids, MI 49504
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Funeral Service
Monday, April 10
4:00pm

Westend Christian Reformed Church
1015 Westend Ave NW
Grand Rapids, MI 49504
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Leave Your Tribute Message

April 09, 2023 10:21pm
Joe, I wish you were here today so I could tell you the great news! My daughter asked Jesus in her heart today at church but I'm sure you already knew that! I know you had something to do with it! Joe, getting to take care of you in your final months was such a blessing. You softened my heart and filled me with such positive words. I will never ever forget you. Alzheimer's stole so much from you but it never got the joy and love you found in Jesus. You were a servant right till the end. Jesus lived through you and your family is a reflection of that. I am sad that I don't get to see your smile or hear you sing every word to every hymn in the book but I will see you again and that brings so much joy to my heart. I promise Verna will always be looked out for and loved. Thanks Joe for being a bright light in this dark world!

- Dawn Mango

April 04, 2023 7:39am
Another great one gone to glory! Sorry to read of Joe’s passing. He leaves a fine family behind and pleasant memories for us all! Thinking of you and all the Bettens who were part of my childhood! ❤️

- Lonnie Rynders

April 02, 2023 8:44pm
Sure sad to see the passing of my friend from Calvin days, I had such great times with Joe, Verna and friends.Waiting to see them at the next stop.

- Vern Edewaard

April 01, 2023 10:18am
Our sincere sympathy and prayers. We have many good memories of interacting with Joe while we were at Westend Church.

- Dan and Lois Day




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