Helen Heilman

December 25, 1931 ~
January 30, 2022

Helen (Vander Haar) Heilman, age 90, of Jenison, went to be with her Lord and Savior on January 30, 2022. She was preceded in death by her husband of nearly 50 years, Gerald; granddaughter, Tina Heilman; sister and brother-in-law, Evelyn and Frank Grimm; brothers, Peter Vander Haar and Billy Vander Haar; sisters-in-law, Judy Vander Haar and Fern Steenwyk; and brother-in-law, Ray Plaisier. Helen was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. Those were her favorite roles, and she did them with unconditional love. Gerry and Helen took many trips but were never gone too long because there were children waiting back home. Helen enjoyed camping, quilting, growing flowers, volunteering, spoiling her family, and baking. Many friends and family were lucky recipients of her homemade pies. Helen loved spending time with her grandchildren and created many memories with them picking strawberries, going to the trailer at Wabasis Lake, baking blueberry muffins and chocolate chip cookies, reading books, watching movies, and playing games. She will be greatly missed by her five children, Robert and Valerie Heilman, Cheryl and James Kampfschulte, David and Lori Heilman, Brenda and Douglas Vander Lee, Jann and Steven McCullick; grandchildren, Kirk Heilman, Linda and Knoa Knapper, Julie and Jake Schrock, Brielle and Brett Jager, Ross and Liz Heilman, Sara and Aaron Bosch, Brad and Haley Vander Lee, Brian Vander Lee, Caitlin McCullick, Erinn and Adam Trask, Collin and Emmaleah McCullick, Grace and Carter Rodriguez; 16 great-grandchildren; brothers and sisters, Bert Vander Haar, George and Sharon Vander Haar, Pete Vander Haar, Frank Vander Haar, Greta and Sherwin Heyboer, Betty and Delbert Heilman; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Howard Steenwyk, Darlene Plaisier, Michon and David Musick; cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends. Relatives and friends may meet the family Wednesday from 5-8 pm at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville) 4145 Chicago Dr. SW. Funeral services will be held at the funeral home at 11 am on Thursday, February 3, 2022 with Pastor Don Van Slyke officiating. The family would like to thank Brookcrest Rehab & Life Center (Mission Point) where mom stole the hearts of the staff and was wonderfully cared for over the past five years. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to Baldwin St. CRC where Gerry and Helen were charter members or to Sunset Legacy Foundation.

Visitation
Wednesday, February 2
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Funeral Service
Thursday, February 3
11:00am

MKD - Grandville
4145 Chicago Dr. SW
Grandville, MI 49418
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Phone: (616) 534-8656

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February 05, 2022 9:28pm
Helen was a dear sweet lady. It was my pleasure to take care of her at Brookcrest. I remember she loved her Dr Suess books. May she rest in peace.

- Deborah Akkerman

February 03, 2022 12:54pm
Helen was one of the kindest people I have ever met. She was a beautiful person, a loving mother and I loved her smile! I am sure she will be greatly missed by all. So sorry for your loss but so happy for Helen!

- Carole Heilman

February 03, 2022 12:20pm
I'm one of Gerry's many cousins although our numbers dwindle with time. I'm very sorry to hear of Helen's death and regret I heard of it too late to attend. I only had the pleasure of meeting Helen a few times over the years but was impressed by her presence and obvious regard for others. Gerry was a lucky man to have had her by his side, I'm sure she will be greatly missed.

- Arvin Heilman

February 01, 2022 11:05am
As a child, Aunt Helen was the woman, after my mother, I most trusted and felt safe with growing up Our families did a lot of things together and she was always nurturing, calm and smiling. She and Uncle Gerry expanded our world by graciously sharing their resources and children. I loved Aunt Helen and have only warm and happy memories of this wonderful woman.

- Gayla Boersma




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