Obituary

Remembering Gena Perez Vander Meulen

Gena Perez Vander Meulen, 58, of Caledonia, passed away on Sunday, August 23, 2026.
Gena was a loving wife, dear friend, and dedicated teacher who touched the lives of countless students, friends, and family members. She was a woman who loved to learn, encouraged others to do their best, and brought a warm, positive energy wherever she went.
Gena graduated from Holland High School in 1986 and continued her education at Central Michigan University. She graduated from Grand Valley State University with a degree in Education, minoring in Psychology before going on to Boise State University, where she completed her master’s degree. Her love of learning never stopped. At the time of her passing, Gena was pursuing a doctoral degree focused on neurodiversity. She also served as an academic coach, working with students with ADHD and helping them discover ways to learn and succeed.
Gena devoted 31 years of her life to teaching English at Caledonia High School. She was a challenging teacher who believed deeply in her students and always pushed them to do their very best. One phrase became especially well known among her students, “Figure it out.” For Gena, those words were more than a challenge—they were an encouragement for her students to take initiative, think for themselves, and discover that they were capable of more than they realized.
Gena was authentic, genuine, and never afraid to laugh. She was a delight to be around, and her positive spirit, encouraging nature, and uplifting personality made her a wonderful friend. She had a warm energy that was contagious to those around her and had a special way of making people feel encouraged and valued.
Gena loved to read and was always looking for opportunities to learn something new. She also enjoyed volunteering at the Allegan County Animal Shelter, where she especially loved spending time walking and running the dogs. She enjoyed staying active and was an avid runner, completing multiple marathons throughout her life. She approached running much like she approached life—with determination and perseverance. She never gave up.
Gena also treasured traveling with her husband, Paul. Together they especially enjoyed visiting the U.S. Virgin Islands, as well as taking trips throughout the country and creating memories along the way.
Gena leaves behind a legacy of learning, perseverance, encouragement, and love. Through her years as a teacher, her friendships, her service to others, and the life she shared with Paul, she made a lasting difference in the lives of many. She will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
She was preceded in death by her father, Salvador Perez.
She will be lovingly remembered by her husband, Paul; mother, Shirley Perez; sister Bonita and Steve Kane; brother, Robert Perez; and three fur baby dogs, Sandy Beach, Sunny Beach, Duchess, and her cat, Joey; and many nieces and nephew and friends. 
Memorial services will be held at 3 pm on Saturday, August 29, 2026, at Caledonia High School’s Fine Arts Center, 9050 Kraft Ave, North Campus Drive.  Relatives and friends may meet the family Saturday from 2-3 pm at the Fine Arts Center.  A Celebration of Life will also take place at a later date. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to Wishbone Pet Rescue.  
 

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Visitation

Saturday, August 29 · 2:00pm - 3:00pm

Location

Caledonia High School Fine Arts Center

9050 Kraft Avenue
Caledonia, MI 49316

Funeral Service

Saturday, August 29 · 3:00pm

Location

Caledonia High School Fine Arts Center

9050 Kraft Avenue
Caledonia, MI 49316

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Gena was an absolute force of nature, and the world has a lot less sparkle without her in it. I was lucky enough to work beside her every Saturday morning at the shelter, where she touched so many lives (four- and two-legged). She is very missed by us all.

— Wendi Onuki

Gena supported me through one of the hardest points of my life with her academic coaching. I had been diagnosed with ADHD and still saw it as a character flaw, and hadn’t figured out how to manage it. I almost failed out of college, but Gena instilled confidence and pride in me with her dedication to my learning, and believed in me long before I believed in myself. She would text or call me on days I was struggling to help me problem solve outside of our sessions, and became a mentor and someone I really looked up to. She taught me and my brother so much about how our brains worked, and it truly changed our life and improved our relationship significantly. I will forever be grateful for her teachings allowing me to connect with him better, we’re so much closer because of her. My self image, functioning, relationships, and ability to advocate and problem solve grew so much in her hands. Her thirst for knowledge and intense passion for her research and teaching of neurodivergence in the most compassionate and inquisitive manner was deeply inspiring. It was an honor to be one of her coaching students as she trailblazed the field of ADHD academic coaching, and I strive to be more like her each day and continue her work someday. She had such a skill for translating complex concepts and research into actionable steps and theory for further thought, and I will miss her curiosity immensely. Thank you, Gena, for changing my life. I will continue your work and spread your joy and passion wherever I go.

— Maddy Hargrave

My husband & I were sitting at the bar at Bay Pointe when suddenly this beautiful, outgoing gal sat next to us along with her husband. We talked for quite a while and I learned she was a dog walker at the Allegan County Shelter. She was having knee surgery and concerned about not being able to walk the dogs. After a long conversation with her I decided to step in and take her place while she was recovering. That was 7 years ago and 2 dogs later. It was heart breaking to hear the news. Our condolences to the family. We are so sorry. I often look at our dogs and how much we love them and I think of Gena. Her dog walking isn’t done yet!

— Mary Collins

From all of us at the Barge, you will be missed. Love you Gena and Paul

— Wester Kathryn

Gena was an angel on Earth. She lived her life always being true to who she was and helping those around her. I had the pleasure of being a classmate of Gena’s at Holland High School. She was a shining star and everyone was drawn to her because of her amazing personality. Gena will truly be missed but her legacy will live on through all those with whom she shared herself and her talents. Heaven just got a little brighter on the day she was called home. God grant us the strength to say goodbye for now but always remember your promise of eternal life.

— Sherry Klenk Rosburg

I am truly sorry to the Perez and Vander Meulen families. I'm heartbroken. Gena was a gift to so many with her genuine warmth, care, and energy. I am grateful for the time we had together having met in our graduate studies where we instanly bonded. I will miss our long talks and Zoom calls brainstorming and researching ways to help students succeed. You will be greatly missed Gena. Rest in peace.

— Rosemarie Lucey

Thank you for every mile run, every tail wag, and every smile you shared with us. Your kindness and love for our shelter dogs made a difference, and you will be deeply missed 💔

— Magi Howell

Sorry to hear of Gena's sudden passing. My condolences to you Paul lean on God and your family and friends to help you through this. Prayers to your entire family.

— Ivan Uren

Oh Gena, one of my best running buddies. I absolutely cherish all the hundreds of miles and hours we spent out in Yankee Springs running trails. All the 5K and 10 K races that we ran together will be fondly cherished. years ago, before we were all texting, we would do our Beachbody workouts at home and then email each other from work about how we liked the workout. My deepest condolences to Paul and Shirley. I will miss you dearly. Sherri Dutton

— Sherri Dutton

i was never as close the gena as others were, but she always brightened up the mood when she was around. her and paul would come into russos and there was never a sad moment when they were there. she was an amazing, beautiful, and smart woman. she meant a lot to us at russos and my father, she will be missed but never forgotten

— Elaina Hosteter

Deepest condolences to both the Perez and Vander Meulen family. We were former class mates in high school and I worked with Shirley in the late 80's at Meijers. May the Lord bring you all with peace and comfort. Rosie S. Zuniga

— Rosa Sandoval Zuniga

Our condolences to the Perez family. Gilbert and Martha Marroquin.

— Rosa Marroquin

There’s a handful of teachers who I can look back on that have directly impacted me in some way and Mrs. Vander Meulen was one of those teachers. She pushed her students to be their very best and would do everything she could to help them succeed in her class. Keeping her loved ones in my prayers. May she rest in peace.

— Mikayla Rorie

I'm absolutely heartbroken to hear this news. Gena profoundly influenced me and so many others. I can easily recall her enormous laughter echoing down the hallways, along with that unmistakable feisty spirit that was so uniquely hers. She was a teacher of the highest degree, and she was a lovely person through and through. Prayers to Paul and the rest of her family. ~Ben Stancil

— Ben Stancil

Mrs. V, I owe you so much. I struggled a lot in school and honestly never thought I’d accomplish much, but you took the time to invest in me, work with me, and push me to be better. You helped me with my comprehension and speaking skills, and before you, I could read the same page 10 times and still not understand it. Now I can finish a book in a few days, something I never thought I’d be able to say. You made a bigger impact on my life than you probably ever realized, and I’ll always be grateful that you never gave up on me. Thank you, Mrs. V, for believing in me when I didn’t believe in myself.

— Austin Rios

I am so grateful for having the absolute pleasure and delight in being your friend and colleague. Gena, you will be remembered as a beacon of light and joy. You could brighten up anybody’s day with your radiant smile and cheerful pink wardrobe. You are deeply missed, and your legacy will be a reminder your compassion, kindness, wisdom, and enthusiasm.

— Cherise Klebanov

I am so grateful for having the absolute pleasure and delight in being your friend and colleague. Gena, you will be remembered as a beacon of light and joy. You could brighten up anybody’s day with your radiant smile and cheerful pink wardrobe. You are deeply missed, and your legacy will be a reminder your compassion, kindness, wisdom, and enthusiasm.

— Cherise Klebanov

I am so grateful for having the absolute pleasure and delight in being your friend and colleague. Gena, you will be remembered as a beacon of light and joy. You could brighten up anybody’s day with your radiant smile and cheerful pink wardrobe. You are deeply missed, and your legacy will be a reminder your compassion, kindness, wisdom, and enthusiasm.

— Cherise Klebanov

Rest in peace, Gena. Thank you for the years you spent running our Allegan Animal Shelter dogs through heat, rain, and blizzards. Your fellow volunteers and your beloved shelter pups will miss you forever.🐾

— Beth Allspach

Rest in peace, Gena. Thank you for the years you spent running our Allegan Animal Shelter dogs through heat, rain, and blizzards. Your fellow volunteers and your beloved shelter pups will miss you forever.🐾

— Beth Allspach

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