Gary Despres passed away peacefully on April 30, 2017 after a lengthy battle with cancer, surrounded by his family. Born June 2, 1960 in Grand Rapids, Gary was the youngest of the four children of Bernard and Barbara Despres. He graduated from Catholic Central High School in 1978 and was proud to have made the first goal in the first game in CC Hockey history, later winning “First Team” All-State honors. Gary graduated from Michigan State University with an engineering degree and was a long-time employee of UNISYS. Gary enjoyed snow skiing, water skiing, and was an accomplished golfer. He was preceded in death by his mother Barb in 1981, and will be greatly missed by his wife and longtime friend, Cindy (Bek) Despres; his father, Bernie Despres; his stepsons, Quinn and Kevin McCormack; siblings, Mannette (Mike Minier), Bernard (Janine), Rich; several nieces and nephews. Visitation will be held at Matthysse-Kuiper-DeGraaf Funeral Home, 4031 Clyde Park SW on Wednesday, May 3, from 2-4 pm and 6-8 pm. A Mass of Christian Burial and life celebration will be held at St. John Vianney Church, 4101 Clyde Park SW on Thursday, May 4 at 11:00 am. Burial at Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations will be appreciated by Kids’ Food Basket, 2055 Oak Industrial Dr. NE, Unit C, Grand Rapids 49505.

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May 07, 2017 4:06pm
May wonderful memories of Gary help to sustain you and your family during this difficult time. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

- Judy Fetterhoff

May 07, 2017 4:06pm
May wonderful memories of Gary help to sustain you and your family during this difficult time. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

- Judy Fetterhofg

May 05, 2017 9:22am
Offering my deepest condolences to the family on the loss of your dear loved one. May " the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our trials " be with you during this most difficult time. 2Cor1 : 3,4 Isa41 : 10,13 Rev21 : 4 Ps147 : 3

- Stephanie

May 03, 2017 10:37am
We are so sorry for your loss and we are thinking of you all constantly. Gary was such a kind guy who loved Cindy with all his heart. He will be missed.

- Emily, Rich and Lily Brouillet

May 03, 2017 6:32am
I am saddened to here of Gary's passing. As a remember Gary in high school he was a great athlete and a great friend. I do remember the time I skipped to to go to the beach our senior year and we did not get home until dark , oh was my dad up set with him. But he was a gentleman and apologized. And my dad told him now that's a MAN. Gary may God keep you close . Love you always, Wishing Cindy and the family peace and comfort Terri Sruba Jones

- Terri Sruba Jones

May 03, 2017 5:17am
“It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived.” Wishing the family peace, comfort, and courage to face the days ahead.

- Michael Cuncannan

May 01, 2017 9:02pm
It is with a heavy heart that I send my condolences to the Despres family over the loss of a great friend Gary. He was the best athlete I have ever met. He could do it all. Star pitcher, Quarterback, gifted hockey player, expert skier, great golfer. Gary was a winner and a champion. But he was an even greater champion as a friend and person. His bright light and wit shined upon all who were lucky enough to have known him. One example is when Gary introduced me to snow skiing and together we shredded the majestic mountain peaks of Colorado. Of course Gary would forego the expert runs to ski the easier runs for my sake. I would never have experienced that lifetime thrill if it wasn’t for Gary. He will be dearly missed. May God’s light perpetually shine upon you Gary. God’s peace be with you old friend.

- Barney Kriscunas

May 01, 2017 4:15pm
Uncle Bernie and family, We are so saddened to hear of Gary's passing. Keeping you in our prayers. With deepest sympathy.

- Dean and Pat




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