Eugene “Gene” Berends

Eugene Howard Berends, of Grandville, Michigan, is present with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ after passing from this life on February 26, 2020. Born to Henry Owen and Lillian (Faber) Berends on October 7, 1926, in Chicago, Illinois, Eugene (“Gene”) moved to Grand Rapids at a young age. After graduation from Lee High School, Gene enlisted in the U.S. Navy for the final two years of World War II. It was around those years that he made firm his commitment to trust and follow Jesus Christ. He graduated from Calvin College in 1950, began teaching locally, and then pursued an M.A. from the University of Michigan and later a Ph.D. from Michigan State University. On June 20, 1959, he married Eileen Rattasep, and for more than 58 years they served their Lord together in raising five children, opening their home to others, and in various roles at their church and elsewhere.  Gene was an encourager, consummate storyteller, peacemaker, source of wise counsel, originator of fun family games, and at heart, a servant of others who treated everyone he met with kindness and dignity. He served as a teacher, principal, and assistant superintendent in Wyoming Public Schools for 34 years, as well as board chair of Cornerstone University. Following his retirement from the Wyoming school district, he worked for over a decade in various international Christian schools as an interim administrator. He is survived by his children, Andrea Berends, Nancy Berends, Kurt (Anita) Berends, Lisa (Brad) Frieden, and Keith (Brenda) Berends; and 11 grandchildren. Funeral services will be held on Monday, March 2, 2020, at 11:00 a.m. at Chapel Pointe, 3350 Baldwin St., Hudsonville. Interment will be at Grandville Cemetery. Relatives and friends may meet the family Sunday, March 1, from 3-7 p.m. at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home (Grandville) 4145 Chicago Dr. SW.  In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to ABWE (Account 013247), 522 Lewisberry Rd., New Cumberland, PA 17070.

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March 10, 2020 10:31am
I had the pleasure and good fortune to meet Dr. Berends as I began my teaching career at Gladiola Elementary School in 1963. For over 20 years as a principal and director of instruction, he provided a model for what it is to be an outstanding educator. He was a gift to the Wyoming community.

- Steve Barnard

February 29, 2020 6:59am
The pleasure was ours Uncle Gene! Unto HIM who has kept you from falling, and presents you now perfect before God, we bring praise for His faithfulness in your life and into eternity. Sending love to our cousins during this time.

- Sheryl Kuzmicz

February 29, 2020 4:44am
What a blessing it was for me to have enjoyed your father, grandfather Gene Berends at Grand Village retirement Center. What a faithful servant of God right up to the end. I can hear the Lord saying "Well done my good and faithful servant, enter into the Kingdom of rest." Now he is enjoying fellowship with his Lord.

- Eleanor DeShane

February 29, 2020 4:18am
Dear Berends Family my love & prayers are with you right now! Thank you for so generously sharing your dad with so many! My father had him as a Sunday school teacher in the 50's at Calvary Baptist of G R. My dad said that Gene was a great spiritual influence in his life. Gene was genuine & patient! PTL ! I am so grateful for having him as a BIG part of my spiritual heritage! He & Eileen never stopped serving the LORD & others! Doug & I so appreciated them in our S S class too!(as mentors to the young marrieds) There are so many incidences that I can recall of your parents/grandparents being a blessing to my family! You have such a RICH heritage in the LORD! I pray knowing this comforts you!

- Teresa Petersen

February 28, 2020 10:56am
Great memories from our earliest days in Grand Rapids (1975) of Gene's example and service. We are grateful for his life. Praying for your whole family.

- Phil & Kitty McMillen

February 28, 2020 6:37am
What a privilege to have known Gene and to witness his godly character. Our sympathies to all the family as you sorrow but with great hope. Gene is healed and with his Savior!! Mark and Cindi Sigmon

- Cindi Sigmon

February 28, 2020 6:24am
We were grateful to meet Gene and Eileen during Julia and Christian’s wedding week 4 years ago. Though Alzheimer’s had started, the Holy Spirit still shone through his spirit and we know he is rejoicing with the Savior and Eileen now! I am sure they will meet Bob and Dorothy Heitmiller at some point and will know their respective grandchildren will carry on their legacies of Faith on to the next generation♥️

- Wolfgang and Heidi Winter

February 28, 2020 6:16am
Sending prayers and hugs to all Gene's family. What a godly role model he has been. Now he is enjoying his eternal rest.

- Eileen Frieden

February 28, 2020 4:36am
What an amazing man, husband, Father, leader, and example of the love of Christ! All who knew Gene are blessed. My sympathy to the entire Berends family. God's peace and comfort to you during this time and always!

- Dave TeRoller

February 28, 2020 4:09am
Remembering times from long ago! What a wonderful man!

- Marijean Faber Silver

February 27, 2020 5:54pm
The last time i saw my Dad, I asked him if he knew who I was, he replied "of course Eugene Howard" As my dad would say, "Gene and I share the same barber" You ran a good race and have kept the faith Uncle Gene. See you soon,

- Mark Berends

February 27, 2020 2:57pm
Rejoicing that Gene lived a long full life serving our Savior. Praying for the family during this big loss.

- Linda Belokonny

February 27, 2020 2:04pm
What a wonderful man of God! I look forward to seeing Uncle Gene soon in Eternity.

- Joy Berends (Jr)

February 27, 2020 1:13pm
We received kindness and hospitality from the Berends several time while we were in seminary. Such a kind man.

- Chip and Margie Bernhard

February 27, 2020 1:04pm
Praying for you all. I’m sure he is exciting be in Heaven with his Savior. He will be missed.

- Ruth Wood

February 27, 2020 11:38am
Praying for you all.

- Deb Gondick Gemuend

February 27, 2020 11:25am
Love and prayers to all the Berends family. See you again one day Gene! Sharon Browning

- Sharon Browning




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