Elizabeth Irene Rhoades

July 3, 1924 ~
December 29, 2025

Betty was born in Grand Rapids to Walter and Dorothy Duemler and lived there for 100 years.  She moved to West Bloomfield to be closer to her family for the last 14 months of her life. 

In 1946 Betty married Curly and together they raised their two kids, Tom and Kathy. She worked many years at Spartan Stores and spent decades volunteering at Blodgett Hospital and Rogers High School. Bowling, watching sporting events, and spending time with her grandchildren were some of her favorite pastimes.

Betty was preceded in death by five of her nine siblings; Marge, Bob, Mary Jane, Arlene and Jackie. She is survived by her son; Tom, daughter; Kathy and son-in-law, Dwight. She leaves behind six grandchildren and their spouses as well as a multitude of great-grandchildren. Her remaining family includes siblings; Pat, Dick (Beth), Nancy and Janet, as well as many nieces and nephews.

Mass of Christian Burial will be held 12 p.m. on Friday, January 2, 2026 at St. John Vianney Church, 4101 Clyde Park Avenue SW, Wyoming with Rev. John Vallier officiating.  Burial will be held at Resurrection Cemetery.  Relatives and friends may meet the family Friday, January 2, 2026 from 11-12 pm at the church.


 

Visitation
Friday, January 2
11:00am - 12:00pm

St. John Vianney Church
4101 Clyde Park SW
Wyoming, MI 49509
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Mass of Christian Burial
Friday, January 2
12:00pm

St. John Vianney Church
4101 Clyde Park SW
Wyoming, MI 49509
Get Directions

Leave Your Tribute Message

January 03, 2026 8:51pm
I was one of Betty's neighbors for the 12 years I've lived at Oak Ridge senior apartments. She was a very pleasant lady and truly a lady. She could play Wii Bowling super well and was fun to be around her when we were playing. I never saw Betty in a bad mood, always had a smile for me and her other neighbors. I hope I can see Betty again someday in Heaven. I wish peace and love to Betty's family as you walk this difficult path.

- Marti Birdsall

December 31, 2025 12:46pm
Aunt Betty I'm so happy you are resting in your heavenly home after your beautiful earthly life. You were always a special aunt and I will always remember you fondly. Tom, Kathy and family condolences on your loss, but you loved Aunt Betty well. All my love - Karen

- Karen J Bostelaar

December 31, 2025 9:34am
Betty’s life was a gift for so many of us. It was a blessing to know her.

- Elaine Salisbury

December 30, 2025 5:21pm
I met Betty when she lived at Oakridge Apartments. My mom Carol Tatara became good friends with Betty while living there. My mom loved her walks and talks with Betty. Betty was such a sweet person and it was a pleasure to get to visit with her when I would be at my mom's place. Heaven has gained a beautiful soul.

- Pamela Griggs

December 30, 2025 5:09pm
May you be welcomed into His kingdom with open and loving arms. You are a kind and beautiful soul. Thank you for your contributions and volunteerism at Rogers High School. Thank you for always being a smiling face at our children’s sporting events. I love you, Betty. I treasured our drives from Kathy’s back to your home. Rest in peace. Give Curly a hug from all of us. With much love, Sandy Bardwell & family

- Sandy Bardwell




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