Bruce Wayne Ter Haar

Bruce Wayne Ter Haar, age 77, of Holland, passed away at home surrounded by his loving family and friends, on Friday, June 17, 2016. He was a member of the Masonic Lodge (Unity Lodge #191) and also a member of the Saladin Shrine. He was recently recognized for 50 years as a Shriner. He retired from Hydro Automotive Structures in 2004 after working there for 48 years. He was preceded in death by his sisters, Arlene and Lois; brothers, Jerry and Kenny; brother-in-law, Richard; grandson, Zackery; and two step great grandchildren. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife of 21 years, Lynn Meyers-Ter Haar (nee Freeman); children, Thomas and Cheryl Lynn, Bruce and Elizabeth, Paul and Jean; 9 grandchildren; 4 step children; 10 step grandchildren; 1 step great granddaughter; sister, Eleanor Race; brother and sister-in-law, Dale and Geraldine Ter Haar; sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Carole and Roger Williamson. A Masonic service will be held on Sunday, July 17, 2016 at 3:00 PM at the Masonic Unity Lodge #191, 1089 Washington Ave, Holland. Relatives and friends may meet with the family from 2-3 PM prior to the service at the lodge. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Masonic Unity Lodge #191 of Holland or the Saladin Shrine Temple of Grand Rapids.

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July 27, 2016

Bruce you was the best thing that ever happened to me. We had 21 years of happiness,true love,fun,travel and dancing. All kinds of dancing ballroom,square,line and round, Everyone said we danced great together. We received many compliments. We cared for each other after our many surgeries showing each other love and understanding. We gave each other cards and flowers just because. We were always together in everything..Now the house is so empty and quiet.No morning greeting hi babe I love you with response I love you more or I love you to the moon and back. Now I read the cards that we gave each other over the years and cry because I miss you so much. I miss your hugs and kisses I want you back all healthy and well, going to feed the birds and squirrels. Checking the flowers sprying for bugs etc. When done and its hot outside driving to captain Sundays for a Mister turtle. I have your urn right beside your chair with your picture and lavender roses.I hope you were able to see all your balloons and heard the fire crackers the day of the memorial. I really miss you most at bedtime when I cannot feel your hand in mine as we drift off to sleep. I miss you at 3 am in the morning as we pass in the hallway. Thank you for flicking the lights in the morning and at night so I know your near me. Love forever and always Lynn

- Your loving wife Lynn

July 15, 2016

Grandpa we miss you so much the last memories we will have of you is you being there to watch us get married and seeing that smile on your face you will forever be missed and will always have a special place in our hearts

- Ashley & Roy

July 15, 2016

Bruce there is no words to say how much you will be missed...how much you are already missed by soo many loved ones.. how you smile used to light up a room and you always had a kind word to say about others and always a pleasure to be around.. God gained a one of a kind Angel when he got you .. you were a wonderful Grandpa to the kids and a wonderful stepdad as well as a wonderful Husband to Mom thank you for all your love and Kindness -Scott and Jamie Meyers

- Scott and Jamie Meyers

June 28, 2016

Thank you for being there for us and for my mom. You were very loved, and are sorely missed. :'(

- Tammy Westberg

June 27, 2016

My wonderful Brucie....getting to be a part of your and Lynn's life for the past 9 years has been a big blessing! You have been a dad to me, giving me advice and never afraid to just say it like it is. The love that you and Lynn have for each other inspires me and it was beautiful to watch. My last memory of you both together was watching you sleep side by side in your recliners and holding hands, then the next morning when Lynn was caring for you...you leaned forward to give her a kiss and kissed her several times. It's such a beautiful thing to remember. You are missed much and will never be forgotten...?

- Kate DeVries

June 27, 2016

Grandpa , i already miss you so much and it still feels so unreal . I keep telling myself your in a better place now . You were the best "step"grandpa i've ever had. You taught me alot & gave me so much love. I love & miss you so much . Just keep looking after us please.

- Jordan taylor

June 27, 2016

Bruce, You truly were the best step-dad I could of ever asked for. You were always there to help and always had great advice. We miss you and love you so much!!

- Jennie Gaines