Obituary

Remembering Brett Thomas Dreyer

Brett Thomas Dreyer, age 38, of Grand Rapids, Michigan, passed away on April 28, 2026. Born on October 29, 1987, Brett was a radiant soul who spent thirty-eight years teaching those around him that the most profound language is spoken through the heart.

Though Brett never spoke a word, he was a master of connection. His big, infectious smile and flirting eyes were his voice, lighting up every room and conveying a pure, unmistakable happiness. To be in Brett’s presence was to be truly seen and loved without the need for a single syllable.

He found his deepest peace and contentment in the simple rhythms of life. Brett could spend hours soothingly sorting his stones and dice, finding beauty and order in their weight and texture. These quiet moments of focus reflected his gentle spirit and his ability to find joy in the present. He was a constant reminder to his family and community to slow down and cherish the small, beautiful details of the world.

Brett’s light will continue to shine through his parents: Tom Dreyer (John Zombor) and Lory Kahrs. He is also survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Ryan and Kelsey Dreyer; his sister, Carole Dreyer; and his cherished nephews: Henry, Charley, and Oliver. He will be deeply missed by his Kendall East family, especially Muaarijih, Gloria, and Susan, who lovingly cared for him these past few years. He also leaves behind many aunts, uncles, and cousins, as well as a wide circle of friends who were lucky enough to be the targets of his flirting eyes and brilliant smile.

Brett was preceded in death by his grandparents: Thomas Dreyer Sr., Carole Page, Tom and Kay Lynn, and Earl and Sandy Race.

Brett was a gift who spoke directly to the soul. While he has moved on from this world, his family carries the warmth of his smile with them every day. He will forever be our giant little boy.

The family will hold a private service to celebrate Brett’s life. To honor the radiant light Brett shared with everyone he met, memorial contributions may be made to: Saint Mary's Foundation, with a kidney transplant designation (giving.trinityhealthmichigan.org) or Thresholds (thresholdsgr.org). Donations made to Thresholds in Brett's name will be utilized to support his former home, Kendall Home East.

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Sending my love and condolences to Lory …May god give you the comfort and strength to you to get thru this difficult time…Sending love to the family and friends…Brett was loved by his mother Lory and his family also…R.I.P Brett May u fly high with the other beautiful angels…

— Dashia Mann

Sending my love and condolences to Lory …May god give you the comfort and strength to you to get thru this difficult time…Sending love to the family and friends…Brett was loved by his mother Lory and his family also…R.I.P Brett May u fly high with the other beautiful angels…

— Dashia Mann

May Brett’s Memory bring you comfort Lory, as well to his family and friends.

— Cate

My heart goes out to you Lory and family... what a precious and special child Bret was and a gift of God! I remember him best as a young boy with that beautiful (and sometimes mischievous) smile! He was busy, happy and LOVED his family! Lory, you had such a strong and loving connection with Bret - like his anchor. I'm sure his passing leaves a hole in each heart that he touched - may the Lord fill that void with love and peace that only He knows how to provide... 2 Thessalonians 3:16 Sending HUGS, and praying that the Holy Spirit will comfort you all. 💙❤️‍🩹❤️

— Heidi Vanderlaan

My condolences for you Lory. Prayers to you and the family. Although I didn't ever get meet Bret my heart goes out to the family especially you Lory.

— Antonia M Galaviz

Lory - I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have always admired your strength and resilience, and I’m praying for comfort and peace in the days ahead.

— RUTH RONDON

Lory - I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have always admired your strength and resilience, and I’m praying for comfort and peace in the days ahead.

— RUTH RONDON

What a beautiful eulogy. I'm so sorry Tom for your loss.

— Thom

Thinking of the Dreyer family during this time. Ryan & Kelsey - praying for peace and comfort during this unexpected loss.

— Michael & Leah Guis

Thoughts and Prayers are with you Tom and family.

— Kelly Knapp

Carmen had Brett in her class and I always remember how happy he was. He will always be remembered.

— Susan Powell and Carmen

I knew Brett from when he was a little boy and into adulthood. He had a great smile and liked to have fun. I have great memories of him. The obituary really captured Brett. It was very well written. My condolences to his family and friends.

— Ann Ross

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