Arnold “Arnie” Penette

December 18, 1946 ~
December 3, 2025

Arnold “Arnie” Patrick Penette, age 78, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 3, 2025, in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Born on December 18, 1946, in Pontiac, Michigan, Arnie was the son of August and Lilian (Vick) Penette. He graduated from Pontiac Northern High School in 1965 before proudly serving his country in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War. Arnie built a longtime career in sales with Bar and Kenwal Steel, where he was respected for his hard work, loyalty, and easygoing nature. On February 6, 1984, he married the love of his life, Denise Penette —a partnership that remained strong for more than four decades. A warm-weather enthusiast, Arnie cherished his winters in Las Vegas, where he spent quality time with his son and close friends, and he enjoyed summers in Michigan with Denise. He had a deep love for golf, whether on the course or watching the Golf Channel, and he will be remembered as a loyal friend who treasured the people in his life. Arnie was preceded in death by his beloved son, Michael Penette. He is survived by his wife, Denise Penette; his children, Andrew Penette, Ashley (Penette) and Bret Wheatlake; and his grandchildren, Emma, Liam, and a baby girl due in January. Cremation has taken place, and a celebration of life will be held at a later date so family and friends can gather to honor Arnie’s memory. The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the nurses and doctors at Trinity Health for their compassionate care. 

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December 15, 2025 2:36pm
Arnie and I became friends in the late 70's. We played much golf together and spent the first week of June on a golf trip to northern Michigan with other friends for 19 years. We also bowled for many years. Suzanne, my wife and I even traveled to Vegas to play golf and hang out with Arnie and Paul Gunner. We drifted apart after Arnie move to Ypsilanti and I moved out of state but thought often of Arnie and the good times we shared.

- Mark Dickinson

December 04, 2025 10:58am
My heart goes out to you Denise and Family. Please accept my deepest Condolences and Prayers!! We've shared quite a bit of Memories together with Arnie and my Dad "Gunner" over the years!! I was sadden to hear about Arnie's passing and remember our conversation at my father's funeral just shy of 6 months now. Although, no words can describe to make you feel better at this moment, please know my thoughts are with you and I understand from a daughter's point of view. May Arnie Rest in Peace and God provide comfort to you and your family. Take care. With Love Always, Michelle H. Gunner

- Michelle H. Gunner

December 04, 2025 5:55am
I met Arnie thru my father back in 1986 and worked with him in 1986 thru 1989. He was a very nice person and enjoyed his mentoring. Wonderful person. Fantastic family man. Prayers go out to his family.

- Jeffery Jones

December 03, 2025 11:20pm
What a great guy and leader in life enjoyed our days at the ELKS golf course. I know he love going to Vegas. He will be missed by all.

- Bob Zmolik

December 03, 2025 7:02pm
Dee & Family, So sad to hear of Arnie Passing. I have many wonderful memories of his parents and him. His Parents were very proud of the man he had become. He had an infectious laugh; he was very kind of him to visit Bob. He always made him feel better after his visits. I like to think Mike, Bob, Gunner and now Arnie are teeing off in the heavens.

- Karen Lynn




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