Obituary

Remembering Allan David Oscar

Allan David Oscar, aged 59 of Caledonia, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, March 17, 2018. He was preceded in death by his parents and sister Rhonda Yates. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife of 37 years, Leslie; his daughters, Tanya Oscar, Danielle and Thomas Dettmann; grandsons, Xavier and David Dettmann; and brother, Raymond and Denise Oscar.  Allan was a loving, caring husband, father, and grandfather. He loved spending time with his grandsons and keeping them entertained with his jokes and great sense of humor. He was a hard-working man that loved to mentor and instill that work ethic in others. He enjoyed camping, travel, and golfing with friends and family. He will be forever remembered for his willingness to help others and be available for advice or sharing his knowledge. A memorial service for Allan will be held on Friday, March 23 at 1:00 pm at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 616 E. Main Street, Caledonia, with Pastor Ben Vaught officiating.  Relatives and friends may meet the family on Thursday, March 22 from 6 - 8 pm at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to United Way West Michigan, Mary Free Bed, or Camp Algonquin.

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Leslie and family, When Allan came to Onsted he made a big splash! Allan’s smile will always warm my heart. The Onsted class of 1976 mourns your families loss.

— Sylvia Handy Stoner

Thinking of you and your family during this time. We always enjoyed when Allan would come out and share his jokes and hearty laugh with us. Still remember how hard he made us laugh when we went to dinner at the Beltline Bar once. He really seemed to love life. He will be missed.

— Danielle & Matthew Carlson

Allen, Was a very giving person and I greatly appreciated his craftsmanship and friendship. He will be missed.

— Franklin Fetzer

Allan's life was lived with passion and dedication. When he was home recovering he could not help but be connected at work. I greatly enjoyed getting to know Allan and working with him. His passion and work ethic are hard to find and he will be greatly missed.

— Bob Lynch

I am so sorry to hear about Allan. He was such a wonderful person. I enjoyed doing the day of caring with him at Camp Algonquin. He will be deeply missed.

— Amy Fenstemaker

We are so sorry to hear about Allan. He was such a nice guy. It is never easy to say good bye. We will be thinking of you in the days ahead.

— Renita and David Jurgensen

You are in our prayers. So sorry to hear of this tragedy. Prayers for strength for future days!

— Norma Knapp (Sara Cook's Mom)

Tanya, I am deeply saddened by the news of your loss. I pray that God will grant you the strength needed to get through this moment in your life. My deepest condolences. Brandy Denny

— Brandy Denny

I have so many fond memories with Allan. It is so hard to believe he is gone. He is resting and not hurting anymore. Prayers go out to the girls and grandsons who loved him dearly. RIP Allan, I will see you again one day.

— Dar SWiler

I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort and strength for you all.

— Wendi Norfleet

It was a real pleasure to have the opportunity to work with Allan at Flexfab. I always enjoyed talking golf and hunting with him and hearing his stories. I extend my prayers and condolences to the Oscar family during this very difficult time. RIP, Allan. Respectfully, Dave Anderson Flexfab Purchasing Director

— Dave Anderson

So sorry..my heartfelt sympathies..I have "No" words. Please call me if you want to talk xo.

— DEBORAH HALL

Dear Oscar family, It is a somber day here at Flexfab as we come to the realization that Big Al won't be returning to us. We share in your grief and offer our sincerest condolences. Mark Rushford, for the Maintenance Dept.

— Mark Rushford

Leslie, My heart hurts for you and your family! I'm praying for all of you! Love & hugs, : ) Jen Dorgan

— Jen Dorgan

Leslie, So sorry to hear of your Loss. Thoughts and Prayers for you , your daughters and your little peoples. Love you, KJOY

— Karen Heintzman-Robbins

I am very sorry for your loss. Allen was a great person and a wonderful character. I have worked with him for many years and I am blessed to have been on many projects with him. He truly was very driven and made a big difference in all he was involved in. I will miss him and his intuitiveness and great positive personality. Your family is in my prayers. Kevin

— Kevin Trahan

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with y’all. Love & prayers!!

— Terry & Cathy Quinn

To have a friend like Big Al share a portion of his time on earth with me is a gift I will appreciate forever. What a guy. I am much better for having know this large, awesome, caring man. Rest in Peace Al, I'll miss you.

— Perry Hart

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