Betsy Lou (Postma) Ryan-Gridley, age 83 of Grant, formerly of Wyoming, went home to be with the Lord on Monday, October 31, 2016. She was preceded in death by her parents, Albert and Earleene Postma, her twin sister, Mary Jane. She will be greatly missed by the love of her life and soul mate, Ivan Walcott; children, Debby (Terry) Brower-Anderson, Robert Ryan, Betsy (Rod) Vogel, Becky (Tom) Brown, Jenny (Randy) Slikkers, Pamela Ryan, Sean (Kristy) Ryan; thirteen grandchildren; thirteen great-grandchildren; brothers, William (Ginger) Postma, Steve (Pam) Postma, Jerry (Cassie) Postma; sister, Laura Postma; many step brothers and sisters and several nieces and nephews. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 11am Friday, November 4, 2016 at St. John Vianney Church, 4101 Clyde Park SW. Interment Grandville Cemetery. Family and friends may meet with the family Thursday 2-4pm & 6:30- 8:30pm at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 4031 Clyde Park SW, Wyoming, with a vigil service at 6pm.