Melissa Ann (Jones) Modderman, age 44, of Allendale, was called home to be with her heavenly Father on Friday, December 7, 2018. Melissa was a loving wife, mother, sister, and daughter who was a light to everyone she came in contact with. After graduating from Allendale High School, she married her high school sweetheart, Joe. Together they lived an adventurous life, taking them to Iowa, Spain, Portugal, and then back home to Allendale, Michigan. Melissa loved everyone she met and was fueled by her love for her Savior, Jesus Christ. She will be lovingly remembered by her husband, Joe; their children, Brooke, Grace, JJ, and Bailey; parents, Doug and Cheryl Jones; brothers, Eric (Jessica), Matt (Nicole), and Nick (Courtney); parents-in-law, Roger and Lynda Modderman; as well as many other family members and friends. The celebration of her beautiful life will be held on Tuesday, December 11, 2018, at 11:00 a.m. at Life Stream Church, 6561 Lake Michigan Dr., Allendale, MI. Interment will be held at Allendale Township Cemetery. Relatives and friends may meet the family on Sunday from 4-6 p.m. at Matthysse Kuiper DeGraaf Funeral Home, 6651 Scott St., Allendale. An additional visitation will be held on Monday from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. at Life Stream Church. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to Joe Modderman. Joe will be establishing a college fund for the children and making a donation to the charities near and dear to Melissa’s heart.
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December 13, 2018 10:11am
We're so sorry to hear of Melissa's passing although she is in heaven, so you w/see her again some day. I'm sure you w/miss her bubbly face.
- Harlyn & Sandy
December 11, 2018 10:54pm
Dear Joe and all,
Heartfelt condolences to all the dear Moddermans and Joneses on Melissa's homegoing. Prayers for comfort and hope in the days ahead.
- Ken Pierce Jr.
December 11, 2018 4:49pm
Joe, I'm so sorry for your loss. I had no idea Melissa was battling breast cancer. Your family is and will be in our prayers. I only spoke to your wife on a couple of occasions, but she was the nicest, sweetest, prettiest girl and she treated me like an old friend. I'm sorry she's gone, but I'm happy she's with the Lord. Please let us know if there is any way we can be of help at this or any time. Blessings on you and the kids.
- Wade Gugino
December 11, 2018 1:53pm
I am so sorry for your family's deap loss. Melissas was such a kind spirit to everyone in high school. Her beautiful loving smile just lit up the hallways.
My deepest regwards,
Laura Raines
- Laura
December 11, 2018 9:33am
To Joe and family, we are so sad to hear of the news of Melissa's passing. We are sending much love, and many prayers for strength, comfort, and support through this difficult time. Love you all!
- Jay & Marilyn (VenRoy) Vernon
December 11, 2018 2:12am
Dear Joe and family,
My heart aches thinking of your great loss. May the Lord's comfort fill, surround and guide you each, one day at a time. I'm a basketball referee who has worked many games at Allendale over the years...my wife is currently a survivor of ovarian cancer. Praise the Lord for Melissa's glowing faith in the Risen Christ! With you in Him.
- Brian Bosscher
December 10, 2018 5:49pm
We would like to express our deepest sympathy at your loss. It's always hard to lose a loved one. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God grant you peace.
- The Jones Family
December 10, 2018 5:40pm
What a special person Melissa was. I remember walking into a room and she was always a beacon of light. I will forever remember her hair and her smile. God Bless all of you in this time of sorrow!!I will pray for all of you!
Rest in peace and have no more pain!
Lori Faber
- Lori Faber
December 10, 2018 12:34pm
Doug and Cheryl, my heart was so saddened to hear of your loss. My sincere condolences to you two and to the families of all. My continued thoughts and prayers will be with you.
- John Whelan
December 10, 2018 11:24am
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you and your family lifted up in prayer during this difficult time.
- Brian Hirdes
December 10, 2018 7:08am
We grieve deeply, now - but we will see her again. Melissa left a little bit of her sparkle on everyone she came in contact with. She changed me, for the better, and I will live my life better because of her. She is one of my best friends - my soul sister. I look forward to seeing her on our next (and last) big adventure. In the meantime, I pray for comfort, peace and joy to return to those most suffering from her loss. Joe, Brooke, Grace, JJ, Bailey, Doug & Cheryl... I will continue to lift you up in prayer.
- Heather Coates
December 10, 2018 6:59am
Dear Doug and Cheryl,
My sincerest sympathies for the loss of your dear daughter, and to Joe and the children and the whole family. There's no doubt Melissa will be always be missed. Words cannot express how sad I am for you but I am also happy with you to know that she is in the arms of Jesus now and you will see her again. God bless and comfort you as only He can. Love from Jerry and me.
- Nancy Davis
December 10, 2018 6:53am
Doug, Cheryl and Family:
Hugs and prayers to all of you during such a heartbreaking time. May God's give you strength now and in coming days. Praying for peace knowing Melissa is no longer in any pain.
- Linda Tiers
December 10, 2018 6:12am
My sincere condolences for the Modderman family!
- Michelle liles
December 09, 2018 9:49pm
To Melissa's family, our thoughts are with you during this most difficult time. Cherish the memories and know you will someday see her again. God had a special plan for her.
- Carole Bouchard and Sandy Staup
December 09, 2018 4:22pm
Melissa was such an inspiration to our family. I loved her and will miss her smile and her beautiful personality. We are praying for the Modderman and Jones families who we also love deeply.
The Anderson family.
- Andrea Anderson
December 09, 2018 1:55pm
Melissa was such a special friend. She came to Jcpenney where we used to work together to see me, when she was in Ames. I’m sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
- Cindy Rickert
December 09, 2018 12:26pm
Sorry for your loss. To me Melissa will be remembered as someone who I have only positive memories of which is hard to say about anyone you graduated from high school with. She was genuinely kind to everyone no matter who you were. Joe, I can’t imagine what you are going through and pray that God comforts you and your family.
- Tim Nesbitt
- Tim Nesbitt
December 09, 2018 11:30am
I am beyond sorry for your devistating loss. May you find peace and healing in our Lord and your family & friends.
- Kim Young
December 09, 2018 9:58am
Doug and family,
Melissa’s father is one of the most genuine people I’ve met in my life and from what I’ve heard and can imagine she was a beyond an amazing soul. We love you down here Doug stay strong thoughts and prayers here from Blair, Kevin and I
- Max Mellon
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